Were you still friends now with your ex after she/he torn your heart into pieces

@happy2512 (1266)
Philippines
December 21, 2009 11:43pm CST
For me & my ex's were still friends saying hi & hello when we met some even still my friends at Facebook & Friendster exchanging letters. At least I was able to save the friendship we have from failing of being a lover or partner. How about you were you still friends with your ex's. Share your experience.
6 responses
@j0anne13 (88)
• Philippines
7 Jan 10
yes, but not that close. just casual talks.
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@happy2512 (1266)
• Philippines
9 Jan 10
Thanks for sharing!
• Philippines
2 Jan 10
No. not as of this moment. we're not really in good terms now. Though I'm still hoping that we could put a closure on everything, forgive each other, accept the fact that we can't be together forever in this lifetime, and move on...
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@happy2512 (1266)
• Philippines
9 Jan 10
Thanks I wish you good luck for that I know what you wish will happen but not that soon.
• India
28 Dec 09
It is very very difficult to be friends after separation dear....The love that you have in your heart, mind cannot be change into friends dear...so i suggest that need not be friends any more because when ever she/he meets you it will remind you the old days when you both are together....
@happy2512 (1266)
• Philippines
29 Dec 09
Okay I will keep that in mind thanks Shivamkapila! Happy Holidays!
@maezee (31543)
• United States
22 Dec 09
Heck no! My ex who broke my heart (sort of) is OUT of my life! I'm still friends with him on Facebook, but I have hundreds of friends on there. It doesn't mean they're actually my good, close friends (as in that way, I have about 4 or 5 close friends, and that's it.) I definitely choose to stay out of their lives once they're done with me. What's the point? It's always hard to bring the friendship back into play when you have such a bitter breakup, that's for sure!
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@happy2512 (1266)
• Philippines
22 Dec 09
Thanks for the idea.
• United States
22 Dec 09
I have no remained friends with any of my exs. I have found that the friendship part of the relationship was never that great and after having my heart broken, It was hard to be able to be friends with them without remembering the hurt. I also feel that Ex's need to stay in the past. I feel that It is a door in my life that I have closed and I need to keep it closed. I feel that the problem with being friends with Ex's always leaves that door open and that eventually one day, when you are truly over the heartbreak you will slip into a world of make believe, forgetting what all they did to you and what could be, or would be. But that isnt really an issue unless you are trying to have a healthy relationship with someone else
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@happy2512 (1266)
• Philippines
22 Dec 09
I respect your opinion & Thank you for sharing your idea.
• Malaysia
31 Jul 10
Well, me and my ex broke up about five months ago and we tried to remain friends but in the end as soon as she found a boyfriend, i was out the door. I have a boyfriend and still wanted to be her friend but in the end it is a choice, she said she was my best friend and yet as soon as she got a new boyfriend, he doesn't want anything to do with me. So i mean i don't know it may be able to work but just from my experience i don't think it is fair to you or your emotions to rely on the friendship.