Cried again because of loneliness~~

China
December 23, 2009 3:10am CST
I cant remember how many times I cried because of loneliness.I just cant help.I feel better after crying.Im tired of being alone.I need someone to spend time with,someone who could say nice words and show affection to me.Someone I can miss and miss me as well.To be honest,Im sort of dumped.I need a new relationship and need someone to cheer me up. Thanks for reading my post patiently.I think I become stronger everytime after I cry.Have u ever experienced this ? Or is it just me?
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17 responses
@Jakywoo (102)
• China
24 Dec 09
My dear friend!Do not be crying again,OK?I can feel yours feeling because I also be lonely in much times.But I enjoy lonely!Do you know why?Because only one person stay along and in loneliness can he realize the life and some other things that happened around you.Please learn how to deal with the loneliness and be brave to face it.I believe you can!!
@simonelee (2721)
• China
24 Dec 09
HI, JAk. Yes, you have your point there. Each of us must be brave and deal with loneliness in able to survive. Nothing can help your loneliness, not with a partner or someone else... but only you, your self. Your loneliness will not fade even if you found a new lover/partner, you can't just relay your happiness to him. Happiness is within you, inside you. The only thing you must do is search for it, appreciate simple thing surrounding you and of course pray for guidance. Loneliness is a habit. In life there is always a two options...either to go this or that way. Life is wonderful, in able to see this you must be happy and everything will follow. God bless to you and hope you'll find happiness before the year end. Be positive.
@Jakywoo (102)
• China
1 Jan 10
Thank you.I will.and you too!I always think loneliness is nbot so bad a thing because it can make a silent atmosphere to us to think something clearer.
@DOLLYBABY (2536)
• United States
23 Dec 09
i had this experience even right now but am not dumped all.i feel this way cause am far away from my husband and it's gonna be like this until he comes in January.
@DOLLYBABY (2536)
• United States
23 Dec 09
i honestly cried a lot over this type of situation cause am lonely and i need comfort especially now since as it's rainy here.i cried cause am a very emotionally person,i cried over the least things others would probably brush off their shoulders,but i guess it's normal to cry sometimes,to get your feelings out instead of keeping it all instead.
@myramae19 (667)
• Philippines
11 Jan 10
yes, I sometimes cry too because of loneliness, so that it will at least lessen the pain in my chest., i need to cry,its my way to comfort my self.,and every time i feel alone, I always pray and ask God to hold me,to comfort me,to give me more patience and strength to fight the loneliness, and he always comforted me. Good luck to you, do not lose hope.., God is merciful. God bless.
@cream97 (29175)
• United States
10 Jan 10
Hi, sweetyethot. I understand how you are feeling. I was there many times. It does get lonesome when you don't have a special person in your life to love and to hold. Crying is your way of releasing your emptiness. Once you find that special person you will feel whole again and complete. I hope that you will meet up with Mr. Right one day. And I hope that he can love you like you need to be loved.
@bunnybon7 (34323)
• Holiday, Florida
8 Jan 10
most certainly. but you are so young. im sure someone will come along for you soon. not like myself thats been through all and am now to old and disabled, disallusioned, etc. to even try any more. but i've had so many good years of not being alone and i do have my son at times for company here. even so, at my age it would still be nice to have a bf. hugs, and my prayers for you, bon
@ankit_620 (496)
• India
30 Dec 09
hey hi sweetyethot. It was really sad to hear that your relationship came to end. I know how does it feel when you miss the one you had always around with you. IT Feels really nice when someone is there for you when someone cares. You need to calm yourself down yourself be happy thinking that there was a time when you both were together.
• Pakistan
24 Dec 09
hey sweety, dont cry..whenever u feel down, come online 2 mylot..we will be there for you:) and one fine day you will find someone who can spend his whole life with you..and you will seldom feel lonely..insha Allah..dont worry.. as far as ur question is concerned..i also used to cry alot..but now i keep myself busy..coz if u start thinkin over bad things in life, you will end up with nothing but tears in ur eyes..u know what, just stay busy..cry whenever u feel like it,but dont let urself think of bad things..just stay busy..n come online..n chat with ur friends n mylotters as well:D..all the best...
@simonelee (2721)
• China
24 Dec 09
Hi there. merry Christmas to you. I've been to this and the feeling of loneliness is unexplainable. Even if the people around/surrounding you are happy, busy, laughing, talking and etc. you just can't ride with them. You felt your alone in a war trying bit them all off. Tears will suddenly fall and you can't explain where the feeling of loneliness come from. A feeling of being lost in the middle of nowhere searching for someone that will come and rescue you.
• China
24 Dec 09
well.this is the first time to hear that someone can cry for the loneliness and i do not care about the loneliness much even i like to be stay alone . you can also chat with many members here in mylot why you still feel alone? if really alone on the real life i'd suggest you to make more contact with your friends and relatives. or your neighbours will help you to abadom this. good luck .
@cher913 (25895)
• Canada
24 Dec 09
what you need to know first is that no one can truly make you happy because that is something that you need to learn how to do for yourself. second, if you keep busy, you will have no time to be lonely. get out of your house, volunteer, read, learn a new language or start a new hobby.
@hoodwinks (158)
• United States
24 Dec 09
awww I am sorry to hear that you feel like that. don't give up hope. I do feel like that sometimes just can't help myself. I am not alone I have kids and a wife but sometimes I feel like that. maybe cause I have my mother or father in my life. while my wife has a lot of people in her family here where we live. if you are picky maybe you shouldn't be whether it be online or outside keep on finding the right person.
• Australia
24 Dec 09
Hi, I think it's very admirable for you to be able to let out your feelings and crying means that you release all of your pent up emotions. There are times where i really feel like crying but i can't and all the negative feelings are simply laying there, inside me. I am glad that you realise that through crying, you feel stronger each time and just remember- you have friends and family who can cheer you up and comfort you =)
@pumeza (56)
• South Africa
23 Dec 09
i sometimes feel that too but when i do i reach out for the mirror, take a good look at this pretty girl called me and i tell the woman in the mirror that i love her so much and without her loving me i'd be nothing. after that i take a bath to give myself another chance to look at the woman in the mirror again. I make sure to kiss her everyday, it could be the shoulder or any part that close to my lips at that particular moment. I could choose to do anything i want, watch tv, meet with a friend to watch a movie, read a book, come to mylot or other sites.
@syankee525 (6296)
• United States
23 Dec 09
it been awhile for me since i am married. but i see what friends goes through with not having anyone. my daughter is going through the samething but i belive there is someone for everyone you just need to go out there and they will come to you sooner or later. i tell people dont feel sorry for yourself because people can read into this, and there are some who will use this towards thier advange. so smile and enjoy life now and stop worry about finding someone. good luck
@kawalnarang (1095)
• Trinidad And Tobago
23 Dec 09
Say a prayer,, the lord will help u soon,we all have such times I believe
• India
23 Dec 09
Yes we do feel terribly terribly lonely.That is the time when you must get out of your shell .Start reaching out to people.Start a joke and share it ,even though it is in the net.Try stepping out and going to the nearest tea-shop/coffee-shop for a coffee.You never know who you meet.Quite a few of my friends were total strangers to begin with.
@Genericbe (1379)
• Philippines
23 Dec 09
Loneliness is one of the worst feeling hard to overcome in one's life. Especially if the degree of loneliness is greater than happiness one seem to encounter. Sometimes, to lessen such pain. I guess have many outlets in life like friends, chats, peers or to any one whom you feel comfortable by just showing the real you. I for one went on that stage and it really disturbed me, affected by days and at the end, I gained nothing but tears.. Never it did solve any to overcome loneliness.. For me, overcoming loneliness must be in a step- by step basis. Having friends to talk with is a good way and taking things at present no matter how harsh in optimistic way is much good. ALways smile and think that many do LOve you, who you are.. Spending moments with them is a matter of time allotment. Merry Christmas