Please help me to get back my girl friend

@sonusd (1548)
India
December 27, 2009 11:03pm CST
Dear friend I am from India and My girl friend now has entered in to modeling career and she is getting good scope to mix up with new friends and also she is feeling very proud when she is getting any compliments from her male friends I tried to make her understand that all are fake just for this we fight for one hour and she is not talking to me so pls my mylot friends please make a call to her and say that I love her so much her name is SRIYA her number is with International code 00919861753865
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28 responses
@meapas (2435)
• India
28 Dec 09
If you really love her then don't publish her phone number and put her in a mess. Give her enough space, if she loves you she will be with you. Love conquers everything.
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• India
28 Dec 09
kick on her as.s and she will understand everything....and as a matter of fact if ur givin ph no of ur gf on net then ur the biggest fool on this planet...think many guys will again call her and imagine giving lewd remarks and comments or misbehave with her then again new problem will start to bete ghar ki baat ghar me rehne do....agar usko nahi samajh aata hai that u love her,,,then leave her for few days...and see wat happens ,,,if she loves u she will come bak to u...
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@Hatley (162161)
• Garden Grove, California
28 Dec 09
sonusd I am afraid mylot admins could delete this as you are asking us to sp;end money to make a long distance call just for you. read the guidelines as I think you will find you have broken several discussion rules here.sorry you do not ask fellow mylotters to make p;hone calls or lend money or such as that. it just is not allowed.
@sonusd (1548)
• India
28 Dec 09
But I have not asked any member to lend me I just request to make a phone call if It is breaking the term then I am sorry to all mylot members
• Philippines
28 Dec 09
calling her makes no any sense. its actually not impressive!
@srganesh (6349)
• India
28 Dec 09
It is very unfair to expose your girlfriend's number by displaying it here.You have crossed your limits there by spoiling her privacy.If somebody is going to give a call to her,I can imagine how furious she could turn against you.You could have asked for ideas or advices here,instead.Well,you have to accept her totally,if you really love her deeply.You have to back her at all circumstances.Now you are in the hands of jealousy and you can't understand her feelings.And she will not understand you either.
• India
28 Dec 09
Ya.................... u have made a serious mistake.................. not just u have exposed her privacy bt u have also made it really hard for urself to get her back................. god help u......
@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
30 Dec 09
hallo. I think that what i am going to say to you are going to hurt you even further. But as i am honest enough, i am sure that you will get over it. As the saying goes 'there are a lot of fish in the sea, but only one that you fancy'. But things doesn't always work the way you want it to work. Unfortunately you have lost this love of yours. Remember she is young and has a great career ahead of her. You have to eccept this. I am sure that you will find somene else. You are young, so go out there and enjoy your life. Do not waste your energy and time, because at the end of the day you will regret it and then were will you be.
@Genericbe (1379)
• Philippines
29 Dec 09
When you love a person deeply by heart. You will take all the necessary things to take care of her in your best ability. If you have a fight with your loved one, fix it within yourself and honestly, tell her what you feel. Than, asking for others help to do that matter by calling her, who in the first place does not know the real situation. You are offending your girl friend feelings and was not able to think properly on the best solution for that problem. Instead, what you did may give harm to her. I hope you can manage to fix this matter with her. We can give opinions but more of doing favors in personal way, I think it is not ethical. Or eve, if you changed situation with your girl friend? try to know how would you feel and react to what your boyfriend just did.
@sid556 (31018)
• United States
29 Dec 09
Hi sonusd,I understand that you are hurt and upset that your girlfriend is suddenly getting all this attention. I am not going to call that number. I think it would make your situation a whole lot worse if she were to suddenly get bombarded with a ton of phone calls from a bunch of strangers. She might also get a bit angry that you posted her number here on the internet. I know I would be furious if someone did that to me. For your sake and hers, I hope no one sees this and decides it would be a good idea to call her. And what if they call her for something other than to tell her that you love her so much?? How are you going to feel then? I think that you didn't think this thru very well. Maybe you'll luck out and this discussion will get deleted.
• Indonesia
29 Dec 09
definitive lo hrs apologized ahead!
@nemrac12 (388)
• Philippines
29 Dec 09
hello friend, sorry to hear that but we are not in the position to call your gf. it is your responsibility and not ours. all we can give to you as mylot friends is "advice" and it's up to you if you will follow our advices or not. with regards to your girlfriend, if that is her dream to be a successful model, let it be.. call her or text her , give some support to her in her career chosen.. you should be proud of your girlfriend and at least she is sucessful.. dont be so jealous... if both of you are destined to each other , no matter how long... time will come you will be together..
@smileonstar (4014)
• United States
29 Dec 09
HI, well... why you need us to call her? you need to act on your own. If you want her back then you should call her and tell her you are worry about her, and that's make you did this mistake. another thing, you can buy her flower or just go to her house and say sorry to her. hope everything will be alright with you.
• Iceland
28 Dec 09
dude, you are very creepy /:
• Philippines
28 Dec 09
I was really shocked to see that you have posted your Girlfriends number... You know you should not do that, contact numbers are private... It is like your giving headache to your girl... what if some rude men see this number and started bothering her? And asking somebody to call her is NOT A GOOD idea as well. If you like her forgiveness talk to her staright and earn it... Don't also tell her that those compliments that she gets are fakes... those bad remarks should not come from you. You must show support and be happy for her...
• India
28 Dec 09
Hi Sonusd, First and foremost how could you post her number on a public site.Also she is a model now.People might actually tend to misuse her number which is a personal information.Who the hell knows, that the boy who takes her number from this site would actually play pranks and would ask her to leave you and he himself would try to get along with her. Coming to your problem.See any person would feel happy when they are complimented.So its natural for her to be proud.You need to get worried if she is over bearing with you, if she avoids you or if she starts moving with another guy.Maybe you are becoming too possessive with her.Give a thought to it. Incase if you think she is avoiding you or showing up her standard with you,then try to make her understand.Explain things in a cool manner and dont fight.Try to make her understand your feelings by talking to her close friends.Take their help. Understandings between both of you will increase gradually... Thanks Sailaja
@savypat (20248)
• United States
28 Dec 09
So sorry, you will get no help from me, I don't know you or your girlfriend well enough to get mixed up in this. But I am sure someone will answer your plea. Please tell us how much good it did.
@manasij (21)
• India
28 Dec 09
The best way is that you should,depending on your feelings,ignore her for some days enough for her to discover her mistake.
• China
28 Dec 09
oh girls if really love some carrers then you will hard to tell them that is fake .i think even we international friends call her and tell her how much you love her can't do much help also. and here need paid much to call an international number so i can't do this favor to you.
• Philippines
28 Dec 09
if she loves you, no matter what happened to her she'll stay with you and stick with you. if her attitude changed after her modeling career, and come to socialized with other people and does not listen to you... well probably she is trying to explore some more her life. let her be... if she comes back to you, then probably she is yours. Good luck!
• Russian Federation
28 Dec 09
y dont you call her asking some body to call your girl friend.She is your girl frind you should call her. really strange topic-call some bdys girlfrind. i am responding this bcz this is the topic first i met. thats y only better you call her brother, if you love her...............
• India
28 Dec 09
Another thing.................. if u truely love her............... and if u think she also loves u.................. just make a call ................... tell her ur feelings for her...................... and i think everything will be fine. :) :)
@kalav56 (11503)
• India
28 Dec 09
You have to be patient with this girl and by doing this you are spoiling your chances with her.Make sure that there is real love between you and this is not mere infatuation.Leave her alone if she is not intersted.Love is mutual and other people cannot be your messengers to convey your depth of feeling for her.