16 Nov 06
The biggest mistake was telling my bf something about my past when I should have kept my mouth shut. it caused a lot of problems between us but thankfully all are more or less resolved now. Its taken nearly 3 years to solve that one and i regret it totally.
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20 Nov 06
Ouch - 3 years is a long time to resolve a problem. I'm glad you two were finally able to move through it. Pardon me for asking, but is your bf so fragile in his love for you (or perhaps his confidence in himself?) that he would make your past his present for nearly 3 years? It's much better to have a boyfriend that is also a great friend that you are able to confide in about anything - and not be made to feel guilty about it, nor have that past become a wall between you....and I understand that good men like this seem difficult to find. I don't think it's because you opened your mouth, but because of his personality that you two have had nearly 3 years of turmoil. I hope he'll see that his hardness of heart closes the openness you had hoped for and you'll (most likely) never want to confide in him again.....and that he's lost a portion of you. I wish you great luck in your future. :)