Learning to love yourself....is the greatest love of all...your comment please!

@jaiho2009 (39001)
Philippines
December 29, 2009 9:19am CST
Hello dear friends/mylotters,mere bhai/s,sister/s, "Learning to love yourself,is the greatest love of all" This is a famous song...i'm listening to this song right now. What's your opinion about this words dear friends? Have a good day everyone
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@bodhisatya (2384)
• India
30 Dec 09
Hi Didi, I think that it is absolutely important to be in love with yourself. And if you don't love yourself it would be very difficult to love somebody else. hmm.. there is a fine line of being in love with oneself and being selfish.
@jaiho2009 (39001)
• Philippines
1 Jan 10
hello chota bhai, Precisely,we must learn to love ourselves in order to love other. Yes,there is one fine line(a hair strand)between selfishness and loving oneself. It is loving oneself that could lead into selfishness. So,we must also learn how to differentiate selfishness and loving oneself. Thanks for your response dear...and hope you had a wonderful new year. have a good day always
• India
17 Mar 10
Thanks, for the mark dear Sis!
@jaiho2009 (39001)
• Philippines
17 Mar 10
welcome dear bhai... have a good day always
@ckyera (17261)
• Philippines
29 Dec 09
hello jaiho! well, i agree with this! i think its really great when we know how to love our self...and as for me, we must know how to love our self or we should love our self first so that we can able to love other people as well... coz how can we love others if we don't love our self? huh! so yes, learning to love our self is the greatest love of all... as well as mother's love!
@jaiho2009 (39001)
• Philippines
29 Dec 09
hello amiga, Good evening dear. I also agree with the lyricists,learning to love ourselves is the greatest love of all. Becoz God created us,so loving oneself simply means...loving our creator. And i also agree with you, from loving ourselves...loving others will follow. Have a good day always amiga
@ckyera (17261)
• Philippines
30 Dec 09
and i agree with you too... we are God's creation, our life is from Him and we should love & take care of ourselves, to show our appreciation to Him and yeah, to show our love to Him as well... advance happy new year amiga!
@ralphido (843)
• India
1 Jan 10
well.. its true all right. i had some trouble loving the girl i dated because i couldn't come to terms with myself..even now, everyday i look in the mirror and ask myself if i like the guy staring back at me ..
@jaiho2009 (39001)
• Philippines
1 Jan 10
Hello ralphido, Oh,i guess it's not yet to late to love yourself,and have more confidence about you. It's one of the our greatest enemy "ourselves"...so,we must learn to be friended with ourself and learn to love it too. In that way,we can love others,our family and loved ones easier and also understand them. Thanks for your response and have a good day always my friend. HAPPY NEW YEAR
@ann61285 (60)
• Philippines
30 Dec 09
Yeah. I also agree that somehow that its really good to love itself in order to give love to others but as for me the greatest love of all is loving God and unto others before itself.
@bingchen (1126)
• China
30 Dec 09
i think that the song is right,i should learn to love myself.actually i find that i worry about myself less.because i only care my lover and my family and other people and dont leave a few place to myself,sometimes i feel tired to worry about people,because of love,i often devoted much and loss myself,maybe i should learn to love myself and care too much.i can make me happier than before.
@jaiho2009 (39001)
• Philippines
1 Jan 10
Hello bingchen, Happy New Year my friend. We feel tired sometimes,especially when we feel that our efforts seems not worthy enough to give our family the happiness that we wanted for them. It seems that we are giving our everything,yet,it's still not enough. So,in this case,we must learn to always love ourselves,and give time for ourself too. It's not bad to treat ourselves with things that we deserve to have and we deserves to experience with. Do things that can make ourself happy,as long as it won't do any harm. Thanks for your response and have a good day always
• United States
29 Dec 09
I think we all struggle with this one on any given day. When things are going well in our lives we have a better attitude about ourselves, and our self worth. When we are faced with tough times, and can not do the things we would like to, it effects the way we perceive ourselves. Learning to love ourselves and be comfortable in our own skin is something that I think is a life long process, because our lives are continually changing, and everyday can bring a new experience.
@jaiho2009 (39001)
• Philippines
1 Jan 10
Hello RAVEN, Everyday gives us new beginning and new experience,and also teaches us ways on how to love ourselves. No matter how hard life is,no matter how trials and problems comes our way,we must not overlook ourselves,but,we should always do our best to carry life along with difficulties and with positive thinking. Sometimes we forget ourselves,due to many reason,we always think of our loved ones first before ourselves. We need to look after ourselves first,in order to take care of our loved ones with the best we can do. thanks for your response and have a good day always. HAPPY NEW YEAR
• United States
29 Dec 09
I am learning to love myself each day. I was suffering so bad with not loving myself. My self destructive lifestyle was proof of that. Now I have been doing good with this so far.
@jaiho2009 (39001)
• Philippines
30 Dec 09
Hello Sharon, This always happen when we keep thinking for our loved ones,we always overlook ourselves. We forgot what ourselves wants and what ourselves need. Problems often destroy ourself...we even punish ourselves for things that ever regretted. It's not yet too late to love ourselves and give time for ourself too. We deserves to be happy,and we deserve to treat ourself for things that we neglect to do. Thanks for your response and have a good day always. HAPPY HOLIDAY
@coldmoon (1092)
• France
29 Dec 09
Loving oneself is a human nature, and I don't think that we should learn how to do it. I think even animals may have this love, so it's not the greatest love of all. I can't say which kind of love is the greatest, but a great love must be a love devoted to some other, and learning it is like learning to love others as much as yourself.
@jpso138 (7869)
• Philippines
29 Dec 09
Yes, that is definitely something that we should do. There are so many things that we do that actually harms us. From the food we eat and the vices that we have. So the best thing to do is to start caring for our body as well as doing something that will keep us fit. From there we can be healthy and then we can truly be happy.
@jaiho2009 (39001)
• Philippines
29 Dec 09
Hello jpso, Yes,that's one good reason why we had to love ourselves. No one will give us the best care to ourself,but ourselves alone. And,how can we love others(our family/friends)when we don't know how to care and love ourselves first. Living a healthy life will give us healthy mind and happy life too. Good answer my friend,i agree with you. Thanks for your response and have a good day always. HAPPY HOLIDAY