Did you have regrets in letting go of a certain person/relationship?

@mhelisa (102)
Philippines
December 29, 2009 6:23pm CST
Have you felt regret in letting go of a certain person? If so why did you let him/her go or why did you let the relationship to end?
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@donsky14 (5963)
• Philippines
30 Dec 09
Hmmm..I did have to let go of someone because "I had to". But I didn't have any regrets, cause I was able to find the person that really loved me after letting him go. Happy new year to you mhelisa!
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• United States
30 Dec 09
At least you don't have any regret, that is a happy thing to say. For me, I deeply regret what I had done. And I just imagine, if I was a little bit braver, I should change my life forever. Not like now, only me and my daughter.
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@donsky14 (5963)
• Philippines
30 Dec 09
I'm so sorry for what happened, but just try to be optimistic of things. Things will be better.
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@felice369 (239)
• United States
30 Dec 09
Oh yeah, there were two regrets in my whole life, big regrets on two different girls in two different period of time. The first one will be the girl I like at my high school year. I really miss her. Because I don't have moeny, nor I own a car myself, I was so afraid to step up and ask her out. She disappointed at me at certain situations too, and I was a coward. The second one is that girl I work with a couple years ago. At then, I was in a relationship with another girl, but not a happy one though. I just don't want anyone called me two - timer, so I also miss the perfect opportunity. Biggest regrets in my life, I should take it and not let go any of it.
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@Genericbe (1378)
• Philippines
31 Dec 09
I did not have any regret letting the person go in any relationship in my life. If it lead to a better resolution then why not. If you love someone, somehow being unselfish is one of the best thing to avoid walls when you separated ways. I believe that there is no perfect relationship but somehow close to perfect one. If the person in that relationship was lost for a reason then I accept things as it is and hoped that someday, there will be someone who will come my way to have me in a relationship.
@lizzyt2007 (1312)
• Craig, Alaska
30 Dec 09
5 years ago I broke up with my boyfriend and my only son's father. After we broke up he left state before his son was born and he still hasn't met him and has not contacted me since. Sometimes I wish I hadn't ended it like I did. This guy is the reason I don't go into chat rooms anymore. I met him online in a chat-room. He lived in one state and I lived in the state I am in now. we talked on the phone daily for 3 months. Then I thought after all that he was a smart loving guy. I didn't date him based on looks. So I invited him to move here to my home and be my roommate. He did the next month. After he moved in I noticed some problems but ignored them. One I had to find him a job cause he was intelligent to find one him self. That job was Subway sandwiches restaurant. After that I saw more problems. He didn't need a girlfriend he needed someone to take care of him. I started to realize he was disabled mentally to keep a job. That's why he got stressed at work and swore at co-workers in front of customers. Of course then he got fired. I broke up with him before that happened though. The reason why I regret breaking up with him is I wished I would have helped him get on Social Security instead for his disability. Though living with him and being with him in public was embarrassing, not because of looks but because of his attitude and they way he conducted himself. I guess I did make the right choice in letting him go. Thanks for helping me get that off my chest.