Time doesn't heal a broken heart, a new love does.

Philippines
January 2, 2010 5:27am CST
agree or disagree?
12 responses
@honey023 (57)
• Philippines
2 Jan 10
I agree and at the same time disagree... If you let go and let time pass, as well as move on... There's a great tendency of healing. But... A new love will help a lot because it would be very easy to move-on. By the help of another person, it will be very easy to heal a broken heart.
• Philippines
2 Jan 10
yeah!!! I guess the two of us understand each other. he he he.. Good luck!
• Philippines
2 Jan 10
i agree with you.......
@DenverLC (1143)
• Philippines
4 Jan 10
Time heals a broken heart with the help of a new found love. Therefor the two must not be separated. Time will find, and new love heals.
• Philippines
4 Jan 10
good point...
@mods196621 (3652)
• Philippines
2 Jan 10
In some reason I agree with you. Because in my case I was in the deep of heart broken and they told me that time will healed my pain but it does not worked. So during that time somebody was courting me and I tried to go along with him even I know that I was not yet happy with him. So time goes by he was my daily companion and every minute when were together he always told me that he really cares for me and love me. So I was touched by his words and deep feelings towards me and I tried to love him. Gave to him all my time and attentions. I n this situations everyday we go along I was felt that I'm finally inlove with him. So, bu the courage of this guy I turned to him. Thanks and have a happy new year!
• Philippines
2 Jan 10
in some situations, a new love really helps... happy new year!
@larish (2191)
• Philippines
2 Jan 10
My personal views on this is that time can heal a broken heart but having a new love would also help. But for a future healthier relationship, it is best that a brokenhearted person fell in love again when he already recover from his ex.
• Philippines
2 Jan 10
yes...don't get unresolved issues get in the way....:-)
• Philippines
4 Jan 10
hey joanne.. this is a good one.. i can honestly say that i pretty much disagree but then i also agree.. its really complicated and hard to move from a broken heart.. ive been there.. time really is a factor in healing and of course as time goes, you also try to go on with your life and not to dwell on the past.. but then having a new love sometimes can be a good thing or a bad thing.. for instance a new love means new hope and a new beginning but then it could also be a start of a whole new round of hurt.. you can never tell what will happen..
• Philippines
4 Jan 10
it's really depends on the person..and the situation.... :-)
• Canada
2 Jan 10
I disagree. Time can heal almost everything. A new love may bring us new hurt and this new hurt needs time to heal. My English is not very good and I'm learning English. Hope you can understand what I mean.
• Philippines
2 Jan 10
i understand what you mean...And you have a point..
@BART78 (2927)
• Canada
2 Jan 10
though some have different view on this, based on my exprience, yes i agree that time itself really doesn't heal a broken heart only new one and how much time you spend with your new love will heal your past...
@kashers (649)
• Jamaica
2 Jan 10
disagree,so what if that new love gives a broken heart also,and another new love gives the broken heart,time heals the broken with more understanding of how it got broken
@Genericbe (1376)
• Philippines
6 Jan 10
I disagree that time does not heal a broken heart and a new love does. Not all people who had a broken heart can replace the love they got from a new love that fast. I can say that replacing a new love is a divert option to recover from being broken heart. This will cope up the depressions you encountered. But, not totally mean that it can replace the kind of love and affection a person got from the past. It can be compared but never be the same in exact. There are people who are broken heart that need time to internalize and realize many things happened and want went wrong ending in such. Time is needed for him to reconcile the mistakes and improve himself as a person making a better one. It will give him the real perspective of what he will be wanting in the future. And when he entered in a relationship, given that time for himself. he will be a more improved and new better person from the past and being able to accept what happened. There are people that can replace love instantly but cannot go over with the past love where time is not enough for them to recover. If the new love gave you security then that time is proper to heal the broken heart. It depends on the person realization on healing a broken heart. Some need time others need love. It is an option of adaptations to overcome the situation.
@bhav27 (442)
• India
2 Jan 10
i truely agree with your sentence , whenever i person is gone through a break up then everyone says that wait for a sometime and you will forget your love , iknow a girl who had a break up with his boyfriend about 2 years ago but still she can not forget him , whenever she met me she used to ask about him then a new love entered in her life and slowly she forget about his past and started concentrating on the present and on her furute so i agree with what you think.
• Philippines
2 Jan 10
I beg to disagree! :) Time heals ALL wounds for me, dude. :P well, with my one definition of 'new love'.. it's a someone, isn't it? :P
• India
2 Jan 10
va man... i 100% agree with you its true but also need a little time to prepare for another love