drama

United States
January 3, 2010 9:26am CST
Let me start out by saying that I am a 30 year old mhter of 1. And I know that when you are in elementary school and even Jr. high and high school you will have all kinds of drama, It is a given, I believe it is part of growing up. But I cannot figure out for the life of me why grown women cannot live without drama? Why do they find reason's to start fights and arguments. One day everything is just peachy and the next someone is calling you up screaming and yelling about things that just dont make any since. I'm from a small town and there are some serious jealousy issues in this town I guess. Because everytime I turn around it is something different, and not always to do with me. everyone has this problem. Is it just part of living in a small town? Are things different in big cities.
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• Indonesia
3 Jan 10
Nice story to hear but do not you have plan to make a novel of yours
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@fchalida (196)
• Indonesia
3 Jan 10
Hi melissa911, Happy New Year. I guess i have same problem with you. Not only in small town just like that. I am 32 yo and have 2 proudly children and lovely hubby. I live in big city in Indonesia and neighbors. But i do not associate with them, but sometime i greet them or just say hi to them. I not really like to associate to them because they always gossiping other neighbors who they consider their unpleasant. They away from me since i have a new car. Maybe because i am new comer here. But i never thought it and never bother them. So i guess don't you worry about other people, the important thing is find the best life for you. Do the best you thing is the best for you.
• United States
3 Jan 10
Everyone matures at their own pace. Some could be at 50. Some could be at 12. A good example was when I took my daughter to the playground to go on the swings. I was hanging out with a few friends there, just catching up. A boy ran by and one of my friends yelled "Run Forest, Run". Just as a joke. Then his mom, lets say about 40, comes running up to us,cursing, and telling me she knows people and we are all going to die. There is a little more details, but I do not feel like getting into it. The point is that no matter where you go, you have people of all kinds. Some are more mature than others. You could I guess call it the nature vs. nurture thing.
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@cream97 (29175)
• United States
3 Jan 10
Hi, melissa911. Yes, that is how it is. I live in a town that has many people in it. And the females here can be so trifling. They spread rumors about other people that are not even true. Grown people can't stand to be alone. They have to find something to stir up and bring up. Drama keeps them living that is like food to them. I know many people that are all about drama. Don't even hang around them just do as you do and don't get involved with them.
@newtondak (3950)
• United States
3 Jan 10
I think you can blame a lot of it on hormones but some of it comes when women get too wrapped up in gossiping about other people and talking about other people and their problems with their "girlfriends". I've never understood why so many women can't keep their noses out of everyone's business!