The worst fight.

@donsky14 (5964)
Philippines
January 3, 2010 1:44pm CST
Hey guys, whats the worst fight that you and your girlfriend/boyfriend/husband/wife had? Whats it about and how did you guys resolved it? As for me, the worst fight that I could remember was when my ex-boyfriend asked me to meet him on valentines day, to talk. I actually agreed on it, but I never did meet him because I told my boyfriend about it, and of course he wasn't pleased.He and my ex fought and we almost broke up because of that. But in the end, we were able to fix things up and were together now for 3 years.
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@cream97 (29175)
• United States
3 Jan 10
Hi, donsky14. The worst fight that me and my husband had was when he was talking a lot of junk to me. And I ended up spitting in his face. He made me so mad. I have never gotten this angry with him before. This is like the worst fight that we ever had. I remember one time my husband was going crazy and he started throwing all of my clothes out of the closet. I told him that I wanted to leave him and he went crazy... This was a long time ago. I hope that we never ever have an big fight like this again.
@donsky14 (5964)
• Philippines
3 Jan 10
Yeah, I do hope that it doesn't happen again...and hopefully it won't be physical.
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@cream97 (29175)
• United States
4 Jan 10
I hope that it won't be physical either. And if it does, then my husband and I will no longer be together, that is all. I don't tolerate physical abuse at all, let alone any other kind of abuse either.
@donsky14 (5964)
• Philippines
4 Jan 10
That's good to hear...never let anyone abuse you. Fight for your rights.
@BinaryKat (738)
• United States
3 Jan 10
I think the worse fight I ever got into with my husband was when we were dating and he had lost his job back in 2007. I was helping him with his finances along with keeping with my obligation at home. I was still living with my parents and paid rent. I knew he was trying his best to find a job but lot of time when I was going to see him he was either sleeping or playing video games. I remembered it annoyed me so much that I finally exploded on him and we got into it. Then finally when we cooled off, we talked rationally and he did a bit better and finally got a job. Fast forward to now, we will be married a year next sunday. He has been working for the same company for two years now and unfortunately now he is looking for something better because there is a lot drama at his job.
@donsky14 (5964)
• Philippines
3 Jan 10
Talking really helps, doesn't it. Congratulations on your wedding day!
• United States
3 Jan 10
Thank you. As the old saying goes, cooler heads prevail. I have learned that getting into a fight doesn't help the situation. Really sitting down and talking can get across better how you feel than having to yell lol. So that what I try to do now as I go through this marriage journey. I wish you and your significant other much happiness and peace.
@donsky14 (5964)
• Philippines
3 Jan 10
Thank you. I wish you the same BinaryKat .
@arystine (1275)
• Philippines
5 Jan 10
I am not in a relationship right now. But I can still remember the worst fight that I had with an ex-boyfriend. You see, I hate being lied to. I discovered that my boyfriend then met up with his ex-girlfriend during that weekend and he never mentioned to me that they met. I was so furious and hurt that I was practically hysterical when he arrived at my apartment. He refused to talk to me because of the state that I am in but I dragged him back when he was about to get out of the door. I demanded an explanation immediately. we also made up that night but that's when I realized that I am capable of being really, really angry with the person that I love.
@donsky14 (5964)
• Philippines
5 Jan 10
Yeah, I hate being lied to as well...so I know how you feel.
@ewinner (86)
• India
4 Jan 10
I remember one of my incidents when I was in primary school and our teacher taught us about the story of the greedy dog....I had a friend who was very greedy, when teacher asked me an example for greedy I mentioned his name and after hearing this his parents came to my home and fought with my parents...even we both fought this was the worst incident I remember in which i fought with my friend...haha
@donsky14 (5964)
• Philippines
4 Jan 10
Lol...parents can really get into their kids business huh?
@maria1081 (1252)
• Philippines
4 Jan 10
This question brings back old memories. Since we are no longer together now, I'll just mention a past memory. The worst fight me and my ex-boyfriend had was the time I heard a bad hearsay about him and I didnt give him chance to explain and judge him. When I found out the truth, I did say sorry to him after 3 days of not talking.
@donsky14 (5964)
• Philippines
4 Jan 10
Hearsay's are never really good. I do hope your okay though.
@kezabelle (2985)
4 Jan 10
Me and my partner argue all the time we are both pretty firey people and are quick to shout our feelings rather than discuss them works for us though we shout aregue it out sort a solution and move on weve been together 8 years now so it definatley works for US! Our worst fight has to be when he cheated on me though I actually hit him for that one only because I wanted to make him hurt just even a small amount of how I was hurting so yeh i was pretty wrong to hit him but he did deserve it we really fought about that so much so I got his family to take the children for the day as its something they did not need to witness obviously. We fought for ages mostly me screaming at him tho which I think was only fair considering what he had done then we talked he spent 5 nights sleeping on the sofa before I realised I was actually punishing myself more than him (because I missed him dreadfully and I realised pushing him away would solve nothing) and let him back in our bed we moved on and I forgave him but most importantly I dont use it against him when we both agreed to move on from it and forgive and forget thats exactly what we did that was almost 5 years ago and we are really happy now and getting married at the end of April this year.
@donsky14 (5964)
• Philippines
4 Jan 10
I wouldn't really know what to do if my partner cheated on me. Its the thing that I fear most that he would do. Its good that you got through that and congratulations on your wedding!
@esjosh (915)
• India
4 Jan 10
The worst fight is the silent one. When your dear one have some issue with you, and he\she don't tells anything about it. Just keep a different and other else stay normal. Just he\she don't talking with you, neglecting you, never reply anything over your any comment. This kind of behavior is un-bearable. It is better if some one comes and have face to face fight with you, you may hit or get some punches it's definitely less pain full than this cold war.!!!
@donsky14 (5964)
• Philippines
4 Jan 10
Lol..oh yeah, I know what you mean esjosh. The silent treatment always always irates my boyfriend.
• United States
4 Jan 10
During the first 3 yrs. of our marriage my wife and I argued and fought over just about everything. from the kids to who should cook dinner & what. Some of our fights did become physical as in pushing or shoving matches. After being married for 2yrs WE STRONGLY considerated divorcing though WE didn't. GOD did a work in us both and now we're going into our 8th year together.
@donsky14 (5964)
• Philippines
4 Jan 10
Wow that's a long way before you guys actually fixed things up. Thank God though that both of you were strong enough to hold on that relationship, and I'm glad that its working fine now.
• India
4 Jan 10
Hi...worst fight in the sense like between my bestfriend and me to say correctly it is something like cold war between us. Always it was me who used to call or message and take care of my friend. He never doesn't have time for me in his calendar. of course all are busy in life but even for months nowadays he is not calling up so even i stopped calling or messaging him but as i like my best friend a lot couldnt stay back without caring but I am getting a feeling that as if am falling behind him feeling awkward. Even if i call us also he used to just divert the topic what i talk or just say bye saying that he is getting other call or busy and call later but wont call until months. So just it was yesterday i mailed him saying that what ever i ask or talk u never have time to talk or message for me do one thing let us break off but i cant u just send me a mail saying that don't disturb me or dont talk with me so that i wont come in contact with u and u too. He is so smart that even if he sees the mail he doesnt reply for any. Don't know whats going to happen next am just waiting if i wont get any call from my friend as usual i never get but permanently if i wont get i feel that broken.....if he understands i may get call but by the time i have sent mail iam thinking that have i done anything wrong......
@donsky14 (5964)
• Philippines
4 Jan 10
That's sad...I do hope that you and your bestfriend would fix things up.
• United States
4 Jan 10
the worst fight i ever had was when my mom beat me... i guess it was when she was really angry.
@donsky14 (5964)
• Philippines
4 Jan 10
Oh okay, so out of curiousity, what did you do to make your mom so angry like that??
• United States
3 Jan 10
I thin one of the biggest was one we actually had this morning. We know a lot of the same people and we got into the subject of people we had been with. He had tried to get with my Ex's fiancee and I don't like her at all., this caused quite a conflict between us. I know we have gotten in other fights as well.
@donsky14 (5964)
• Philippines
3 Jan 10
Well I hope you guys would be okay SkiBabe
@polachicago (19143)
• United States
3 Jan 10
I don't remember any fight in my life with anyone. I don't know if this is good or bad. Maybe my nature is not accepting fights, so I tend to solve all problems without fight. HUGS
@donsky14 (5964)
• Philippines
3 Jan 10
Wow, well that's great, specially when it comes to relationships polachicago
• Canada
3 Jan 10
It came from my best friend and me. The story is like this: When i was in high school, my friend asked me to help him fight other students. I refused and he began to laugh at me. I was so angry at that time. Then, I couldn't control myself and fought with him. It was so terrible that we both were hurt. Because he is my best friend, after that, I had to help him fight. My English is not very good. Does it make sense?
@donsky14 (5964)
• Philippines
3 Jan 10
Ah okay, so a fight with someone else turned out to be your fight. lol...anyway, I'm glad that your okay.