Love at first sight

@dayeem (13)
Bangladesh
January 6, 2010 6:56am CST
At that time I was only 18years old, I made the big mistake of my life but i found it when she left me only for money and money
11 responses
@shreed_14 (460)
• India
7 Jan 10
Well to be very frank I do not believe in love at first sight.To be more precise I do not believe in this love at all.I know it sounds weird and made-up and dramatic and all,but that is what the truth is. I have had a boyfriend about two and a half years back.We were very good friends at first and realized we were in love after 5 months of knowing each other. The relation did not last even four months. It was he who started it,proposing to me at first and saying all the good things in the world.And finally it was he who ended it. I really loved him a lot and still cannot seem to get him out of my mind. So now somehow I do not trust any boy in matters of heart.
@dayeem (13)
• Bangladesh
8 Jan 10
for that single boy you cant blame each and every boy of this world. as like i dont blame each and every girl of this world for that single girl i loved.
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• India
17 Jan 10
Well I know i cannot blame all the boys in the world.Not everyone is same. But the thing which is making it difficult for me to come out of it is the fact that I still love him even after being fully aware he is never going to come back.And even if he does things are not going to be the same again.
• India
9 Jan 10
i don't believe in love at first sight because you cannot judge the person at the first time..love at first sight is just infatuation..I too had developed a crush on a person and thought it to be love at first sight but I never expressed my feeling to him immediately and i'm happy that i didn't because gradually with time i discovered he was a jerk and unreliable..and i'm happy.Love happens accidentally because at the time of my admission in the college,while i was at a hotel my mom called me out and she introduced me to a guy,whom at first sight thought to be arrogant but he turned to be my classmate and i started hanging around with him..we became friends and now we are more than friends...
@dayeem (13)
• Bangladesh
11 Jan 10
wow thats good. now i also dnt believe in this crap.
• India
7 Jan 10
HI dayeem, i read all responses and i am also 19years old really i don't why girls behaved like this.i am a girl but i don't think like this whole life.and i think love is a friendship.
@dayeem (13)
• Bangladesh
8 Jan 10
hello..thanks for your good thought. but not every girls thinks like you. wish everyone of you girls think like you. anyway, thank you.
@online_jon (1478)
• Philippines
7 Jan 10
TAKE A SECOND LOOK CLOSER TO MY AVATAR. Now I know you believed with the love at first sight? :) hehe . Just kidding! Well, for me I believed at love at first sight because there are times or situation that you see a very attractive someone and you put your focus there. Then you find that she's really attractive. Well, i always experience it when i'm in unfamiliar place. But that's only a crush for me and not a love. :)
@dayeem (13)
• Bangladesh
8 Jan 10
for me that was not a crush.she was my class mate then. we passed 2 years as lovers. but when i found that she is in love with my wealth then i understood that, i have made a big mistake. not big the biggest mistake of my life. now my life is going well. hope it will be.
• India
6 Jan 10
I had heard that love is always blind so there is no question of sight..!
@dayeem (13)
• Bangladesh
8 Jan 10
love is blind but i m not.
• India
6 Jan 10
I had heard that love is blind...so what is question of sight?
@dayeem (13)
• Bangladesh
8 Jan 10
love is blind but i m not.
@jithinpg (87)
• India
6 Jan 10
The love at first sight is like a 50-50 game in the life. Because you are evaluating someone by a second, and getting into love without knowing them properly or more deeply. Girls of modern age mostly like to go with a guy who would be a nice display item for her in front of her friends, and in the public, one who takes her to movie, one who takes her for shopping and take care of all her expenses. Such girls are not loving the guy who is with them, but their money and the luxury they had presented to her. So, if some day the guy is not able to shell out money for her she will gradually show dissatisfaction with him and will soon leave him. There are only rare girls who believe in true love, to whom love is above money and luxury. I remember one of my chat friend who proposed to me, who was from a very very rich family. She used to call me on mobile, and our friendship turned into a love from her side. I told her that if she wish to come with me, i cannot guarentee even half the luxury she is enjoying today. Her answer was, i just want to be with you only., and i can be a normal girl without any luxury because i see you above all those luxury. Unfortunately, that good friend is still my best friend, and more than a friend. She cannot be my wife in any instance because i am already engaged with my lover 1 and half years before she proposed me and my lover is also same like her, thats why i got engaged with her :). I told i'm already engaged, and she agreed with it very sadly. Actualy i used the word "Unfortunately", because i am not sure i can find any other girl like her again in my life. Whoever might be her future husband, he is very very lucky. Because she is cute, beautiful, well educated and from a respected very rich family, and sees relationships as greater than luxury. God bless her. -Jithin :)
@dayeem (13)
• Bangladesh
8 Jan 10
congrats man..you are very lucky. you are engaged with your lover. god bless you and your love. is your love is 'love at first sight'?
@jndlponti (2413)
• Philippines
6 Jan 10
Hi.. Later when you get older you will realized that there is no such thing as love at first sight. You will then overcome that pain and try to love again. That I am sure of.
@dayeem (13)
• Bangladesh
8 Jan 10
now i m older. but i dont want to be a part of it any more.
@syaryel (155)
• Malaysia
6 Jan 10
I never believe in love at first sight..never in my whole life... I think that kind of love is so physical in nature, and far from true love... no matter how many time you look at it, its just lust...
@dayeem (13)
• Bangladesh
8 Jan 10
thats cool. u r very lucky that u dont believe this. love is another name of pain.
@wuyuanhua (114)
• China
6 Jan 10
I made a big mistake too at 19years old. and the girl left me for years. while she told me she love my money, I have not managed her again. But I really love her. So I have to tell myself what I don't love others easily.
@dayeem (13)
• Bangladesh
8 Jan 10
thats the reality. girls usually dont know what is real love. and love at first sight is more far from there thought. now what i m doing is just living my life without love but enjoying it.
@fchalida (196)
• Indonesia
9 Jan 10
Really i don't know meaning of true love at the first sight. I just feeling in my heart that i love him. Not every women love a men because money, money and money. May be you do find a girl friend from sexy body and beautiful so ( sorry ). You will find the best girl friend. Just trust the love in your heart.