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Philippines
January 10, 2010 5:43am CST
i have girl who is my long time crush and i've been longing to have her as my girlfriend. what could be the best way to get her heart? and how do i get her attention? what should i do first? please help me guys. i need your consent and advices here.thanks
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@cyberfluf (5005)
• Netherlands
10 Jan 10
I agree that getting to know her better is the best way to go. If you have known her for a longer period of time, why not ask her out? It doesn't have to be a date, but if you are allready befriend going out together wouldn't be that awkward. If you aren't in that stage yet, just talk to her. Show interest in her hobbies, studies and things like that. If you have similar interests you'll have enough stuff to talk about. It can grow from there and if you like each other ask her on a date later on. Best of luck!
• Philippines
11 Jan 10
thank you for the suggestions. it is much appreciated. but im doubtful, what if she wont talk to me. what if she'll snob me or something like that. i'v experience like that once before. how do i start the conversation?
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@cyberfluf (5005)
• Netherlands
11 Jan 10
If she turns out to be a snob then I would reconsider if she is really the girl for you. If she feels to good to talk to you then she's not worth your time. This may sound harsh, but if you can't even have a normal conversation with her I don't see it working out. If she's a nice girl she'll talk to you, even if you are having trouble to find a topic.
• Philippines
10 Jan 10
hello jwizard.. if you like her.. why not talk to her?? i mean it wont hurt if you try right?? but dont be too straight on her.. maybe she'll think your taking things too fast.. just try and be friend her for now.. and get to know her better.. find out some stuff about her and maybe it will also give you a clue whether you two can be a match.. or something like that.. just be sure not to cover yourself and make herself want to like you in a way that you tend to lie to her or something.. just be yourself and let everything flow once you've already became friends with her.. it all starts there.. best of luck man.. [i]..swollen minds and spoken lies.. ..you'll never hear their silent cries..[/i] - hush ^^,
• India
10 Jan 10
yeah mayanoka is just right..you should just start talking to her..and if she is already your good friend you should spend more time with her.but don't ever act as a jerk in front of her.
• Philippines
10 Jan 10
maybe, you should start by being friendly with her so that you won't intimidate her. try to get to know her first as a person so that you would know the interests that you share. after some time, you can ask her out casually on a date. avoid being too formal and just be yourself. don't pretend to be someone that you are not. make her laugh all the time but don't make corny jokes. you could also try making her miss you so spend some time away one in a while. i hope this would help.