How Painful is it to Get Rejected In Love

India
January 10, 2010 7:48am CST
I liked a girl near my shop since 3 years. 2 Days back she hinted that she never loved me. It hurt me. Have u any experience of getting rejected?
7 responses
@emediloy (701)
• Indonesia
10 Jan 10
hi preethaanju..i never rejected by someone.but i had a one side love.i love a girl for such a long time,but she didn't know how i feel about her,because i never told her.sounds like i'm a chicken or something,but it is for some reason that i can tell i love her.i think it is more hurt than rejected lol.u must have forget the girl,and find another more attractive girl,okay?be happy!!
• India
12 Jan 10
I had a similar experience.Its true that these are indeed very hurtful.
@srganesh (6349)
• India
11 Jan 10
prethanju!It is very sad to hear about the result.I can remember a post by you some months back where you are speaking about a girl's positive response.Is this the same girl you were talking about? Yes!I too have this experience of getting rejected.That is real bad to feel like that and I wondered what made her decide like that.I ended with more sleepless nights,feeling the pain.Time is a great medicine which heals all the wounds but it will leave a scar which we can't avoid. Consider that girl to be unlucky and wait for your girl.She will soon show up in your life.
• United States
10 Jan 10
It always hurts to get rejected like that but I try to remember what a good friend when I was in college, once told me about rejection and it helps some. He said "People reject you for many reasons, most of which have NOTHING to do with you"! I hope that helps some...in the meantime, hang in there and try not to let it get you down. Have a great evening!
• India
10 Jan 10
dear that is not love that is just attraction and if you feel that you are in love with that girl then i don't think you need to wait for 3 long years,,u can tell her directly about your feeling,,,and if she rejected you then their another girl is waiting for you who is more beautiful than that...search for that dear she loves you only
• Philippines
10 Jan 10
hola preethaanju i understand what you feel if you being rejected by your love one or by your crush and i feel also the pain in our loving heart. it happens to me most of the time because of my personal looks. my personal look is the main reason why i being rejected by most of the people. and i tell you honestly is cause me alot of pain and i cried alot. im type of gurl who easily fall inlove fast. in return i easily get hurt also. i just told myseld maybe there are not meant for me thats why they rejected me. i told myseld also this is not the right time for me. lets just wait. there are alot of people in the world. alot of people who will really love me and accept me as who em i.
• Philippines
10 Jan 10
hey preethaanju.. i know what it feels like.. hurtful.. very hurtful.. i was there once before.. got rejected to by this girl i liked.. dumped me for someone else.. but i think its also a way for us to learn and start a new.. if you know the right people then i think you'll be alright.. they will be there for you.. my friends were there for me.. and we partied all night.. dont dwell on the past.. try to move on and think of it as a new beginning.. best of luck to you.. [i]..swollen minds ans spoken lies.. ..you'll never hear their silent cries..[/i] - hush
@zuokula (43)
• Lithuania
10 Jan 10
Hello, preethaanju. Well, first of all, I wouldn't call it a love. It's more of an attraction or something like that, as love forms when both partners feel the same way, and it forms only after some time. But if talking about your situation, then yes, I guess all people have felt something simmilar. It's just a bad luck to start liking someone who never even look at you. The worst thing is that it's nearly always like that. Mindaugas.