Long-distance dating?? Lasting or not?

Indonesia
January 16, 2010 9:59am CST
Lots of teens and adults who do long-distance dating relationship. Many of them didn't last long, in other words "the relationship ended in the middle of the road". There is also the last for so long, until at some point they can survive. I'm still a bit concerned with the "long-distance relationship" that i do with my girlfriend. Was able to last long, or have to end..
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@PeacefulWmn9 (10424)
• United States
17 Jan 10
Hello Dan I think for a relationship to last or for a couple to be considered a real couple, there needs to be some regular in-person contact to sustain and grow the relationship. As for the distance, if both are happy with the arrangement, it could work. But I think more often, it is hard to sustain such a relationship. Karen
• Indonesia
17 Jan 10
Hi There.. ^_^ Yes, i agree with u. I feel (so far) my relationship with my girlfriend rather complicated, and on the verge of separation. There was no communication as well before doing "long-distance relationship". But now situation is different, "THERE IS NO COMMUNICATION ATA ALL". Thank you for responding.. DANANG ^_^
• United States
18 Jan 10
No, my new friend. That is not a good sign! I think you deserve to be treated better, as I'm sure you know.
• Indonesia
28 Feb 10
eventually we broke up. we didn't took it anymore to did long-distance relationship.
@Kent90 (71)
• Malaysia
16 Jan 10
well, I dont agree that long distance dating can last long. relationship is about 2persons, the way they interact, the way they live, the way they communicate and others. if they are long distance, how are they going to understand each other more deeper? how are they going to live together after wedding?(if they success) different religion and different culture. how to live together? love is not just about presence. need think twice.
• Indonesia
17 Jan 10
Hi there, At first i didn't agree to make a long-distance relationship like this. But this is my risk. She went to collage out of town, but I am enrolled at local university on my town. At first i felt normal. But these day we rarely communicate each other. In fact there is no communication at all. thank you for response.. DANANG ^_^
@Kent90 (71)
• Malaysia
17 Jan 10
there is really a risk!~ you cant play this relationship as a risk. u may try to connect to her back. dont break up so fast. maybe she is busy but her heart is still with u. u must find her back and ask her how are she and try to care for her until the seconds u both cant communicate. for the case of relationship of 2 person from 2 different country is no hope.