They are seperated but he pays all her bills!

United States
January 18, 2010 11:08pm CST
I know a couple that were on the verge of divorce like 2 years ago. The husband wanted it and moved out of their home. After a year of being moved out the wife finally moved into an apartment and he moved back into the house. Then the husband decided to stop the divorce and started calling the wife alot. Next they started seeing each other a few times a week for lunch for example. At first the wife was paying all her bills.Rent,heat,electric,water,cable,internet connection etc. Now I find out he has been paying most of the bills I just listed! The husband is a retired teacher. He lives off his pension and paints,like houses,on the side. He even gives her spending money to go and buy clothes, purses she doesn't need! It sounds like the wife will move back in with hubby soon! He is making a big mistake! His wife is a ungrateful *itch! She nags him constantly on how things should be and how she thinks the world should be! This was the reason he was going to divorce her in the first place! I can guarentee she is not grateful for him paying her housing bills and giving her money to shop! The marriage will end up being like it was and he'll become very unhappy and she'll still be an ungrateful *itch! Neither has learned a lesson and they would be better off not married or being in each others lives period! It is a mess!
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3 responses
• United States
19 Jan 10
To be honest with you, You are coming off in your post like the Jilted Girlfriend . The hatred you have for this woman is not healthy. Take a deep breath and let it go..... For some reason this man seems to still love his wife , nagging and all or he wouldn't have started supporting her again. Whether it is right or wrong , that is not for us to decide. If you are just his friend , then be just that . But if you are a Jilted girlfriend , it is time to move on.
• United States
20 Jan 10
I am not a jilted girlfriend and I can't believe you got that from my discussion! I don't get it! I have a great didcussion and some people read it the wrong way! This is why I think,sometimes for days,about starting discussions becuase of this!I think I'll leave the discussions alone for awhile and just response to other discussions! I get this all the time and I really feel offended when it happens!
• United States
20 Jan 10
In your original post, you did not mention you were her coworker............And if she is a coworker of yours why are you having personal conversations with her husband like that? That crosses the line somewhere.
@thea09 (18329)
• Greece
20 Jan 10
I agree with you cheryltippet about bluepacket here coming across as jealous but I don't think she's the jilted girlfriend. It's unusual though to hear her taking the mans side as she's got no time for them usually. I imagine its more a case of her just being jealous of anyone who might be making another go of things.
@picjim (3003)
• India
19 Jan 10
The woman obviously doesn't realise what a nice person she has for a husband.Some people can never understand the value of an understanding and dutiful husband.The woman doesn't deserve what she has got.The husband also ought to have kept his distance.I think he ought to have realised once bitten twice shy.
• United States
20 Jan 10
No this woman doesn't know what a nice person her husband is! Her should stay his distance but it seems he has not learnt! He'll be burned again in the furture!
@laglen (19783)
• United States
19 Jan 10
Well, he must love her. If it is a big mistake, it is his to make. I know it is hard as a friend to watch it happen, but all you can do is be there for him.