His wife turned out to be a leisbian!

United States
January 18, 2010 11:17pm CST
I know this happens from time to time. I just have never known a person who it has happen to before! This poor guy had no clue she was gay and before they got married some people thought she was! It turned out she was not sure if she was or not before the marriage. After being married a few years the wife falls in love with another woman! The guy is very nice and good guy. When she wanted and got a divorce he was really upset! It took he by total surprise! I would flip out if I was married and the guy I married tells me he is gay! I can't imagine how someone copes with that!
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@crazydaisy (3896)
• Canada
19 Jan 10
It is very hard to when I got married I found he was gay I had a daughter and he never said a word till 5yrs later that's hard to take and his so called lover came to me in store and said I am his lover well what a shock I had my daughter with me I had to get a way from him as fast because she started asking who he was. It took me along time to get over that shock. My daughter is now 32yrs old with 2 kids of her own which is nice. cd
• India
19 Jan 10
What a shock it must have been, how did your daughter, take the fact that her father was a Gay.I hope you dropped him and married some body else.This is the way the woman must show, that even if the man had done such a thing, she can lead a normal life.
• Canada
19 Jan 10
No I didn't I felt I couldn't go out with anybody for about 13yrs till she was grown up. and I don't think I told her she knew about him beating me up so she thinks that's why I divorce him it be to upsetting to her it's bad enough to see her mother treated that way she didn't needed to told about her father on top of that. cd
• United States
22 Jan 10
That is crazy! I know a woman at work who married a gay man but didn't know until after 10 yrs and 2 kids! This woman is on her 3rd marriage,also!
@ElicBxn (63194)
• United States
19 Jan 10
I've had a couple of friends who's boyfriends left them for other men - but it hasn't happened to me... On the other hand, I always figure that if I like a guy, then he's probably gay - cause I have a knack for that - so maybe that's why I'm still single after all these years!
• United States
22 Jan 10
I wish I had that problem! I'm single mostly because I want to!
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@ElicBxn (63194)
• United States
22 Jan 10
there's that too, blue
@sid556 (30960)
• United States
19 Jan 10
It does happen. A lot of gay people have married in hopes of covering up the fact that they are gay because of the stigma surrounding it. It used to happen a lot more often. Years ago I worked with a girl who went home during her lunch break and found her husband in bed with another man. She was devastated! As a teen, I also babysat for this woman who had two sets of twins. She seemed to have the greatest marriage and the coolest little family. Imagine my surprise when she kicked her husband out and had another woman com to live with her. I think this sort of thing happens less and less as society becomes more accepting of gay people.
• United States
22 Jan 10
I figured that alot of people who are gay get married to cover up being gay. I think this happened to this guy I know! People are more expecting now a days which is good.
@nicholejade (2430)
• Canada
19 Jan 10
Alot of gay and lesbian people have married in hopes that it would cover up who they are and some to even change who they are. They are hiding behind a marriage so they don't have to come out and tell everyone they like the same gender. I know a few people who it has happened to and honestly you have to think how the other person feels. They are coming out of the closet and letting the world know who they are. Years ago this is what people have done and now since the world is coming to terms with homesexuality people are being true their emoitions and who they want to be. However some people still marry out of spite and think they are going to change when in realtiy you can't change who you love and want to be with. I do feel for your friend but think of what she has had to go through too.
• United States
22 Jan 10
I toldly agree with your response!
@trisha27 (3494)
• United States
19 Jan 10
Wow, I've only saw stuff like that on tv. I think that I would be completely upset myself if my husband turned out to be gay and wanted a divorce. So I can see why that guy is reacting in the way that he was. I'm sure that he felt deceived by the woman that he married, expecting that she was straight and was only planning to be with him and then drops on him that she is lesbian and is planning to leave him to be with this other woman. That is so sad. I don't how much more I would be able to handle that, except for being angry of the situation.
• United States
22 Jan 10
It sure happen alot in real life! Alot more then I thought! It sure is sad!
@warvial (1146)
• Singapore
19 Jan 10
I have never thought that such situation would happen real life. I did hear a lot of people said about their one-night stand become nightmare when they realized the woman is a man actually. But to be married to a lesbian, it's something I only saw in movies, not real life. I hope that guy would be able to get over with this "incident" soon.
• United States
22 Jan 10
Yes it happens in real life! I know the guy was heartbroken but he seems to be ok now!
• India
19 Jan 10
It's really crazy situation. I think before getting married we need to understand our partner fully then we can make any decision. marriages cant be happened all of sudden.
@jambi462 (4576)
• United States
20 Jan 10
You can't really get mad at someone for pursuing what they love or want, it would just be nice if they didn't hurt peoples feelings in the process. I see how women would have easier time with homosexuality because they were god's creation of beauty. It's pretty hard to resist that.