10 Year Old Not Eating

@sassy28 (834)
United States
January 19, 2010 9:31am CST
My son will not eat much of anything. He has been this way for years. He only weighs 57 lbs. The doctor is giving him some medicine to help increase his appetite, but even that does not work. He will ask if we can have pizza for dinner and talks about how hungry he is, but then will only eat maybe a slice, if he finishes it. He loves tacos, on a good day he may eat two. He is not a big candy eater, so even that won't help. He loves turkey and ham, and both Thanksgiving and Christmas he did not even touch it. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.
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@TAZNEM (656)
• Philippines
26 Feb 10
i think your son has a health problem you should take him to a doctor or find him a better doctor cuz maybe there is an underlying cause for his absence of appetite. he is only 10years old so this must be corrected other wise it will affect his growth
@sassy28 (834)
• United States
26 Feb 10
He has seen a couple of different doctors over the past two years. His most recent doctor is the only one that really seems concerned about it. She has given him some medicine to help increase his appetite. It works pretty well, he needs to go back and maybe have it increased a little bit, he still does not eat like he should.
@olisaur (1922)
• United States
20 Jan 10
First of all, make sure he isn't having any pain or something that makes him not want to eat, and if you haven't already tell the doctor all about what's going on and let him have a thourough examination. If everything check out ok, maybe try asking your son what he wants to eat. Or maybe try cooking really hearty meals that fill the house with an enticing aroma- maybe that will make him want to eat.
@sassy28 (834)
• United States
21 Jan 10
He is fine in everyway except his weight. I have been cooking things and he will come in and think something smells good, but then once he looks at it he won't like the way it looks. I will usually fix him something that I know he likes and it is 50/50 whether he eats it or not.
@chulce (1537)
• United States
19 Jan 10
Given that he has been like this most of his life. Another suggestion to help put a little meat on his bones, would be the protien drinks that you can get "Ensure". I have a son that was like that when he was little. I actually used the Ensure, which helped a great deal. We also gave him the carnation breakfast drinks. Remember also that sometimes, stress will cause an issue, it is even worse for a child that already has issues eating. Be sure to talk to your child regularly about things that might be going on at school so you have an inside view if there are any problems. Bullying is a huge one and only seems to be getting worse. Good Luck! Wish you will with your son.
@sassy28 (834)
• United States
19 Jan 10
I will have to give those a try. He goes to a very small school, only 17 in his class, 34 total for 5th grade. We stay pretty well informed on what goes on at school. His teacher loves him, so I know if there was a problem there she would let me know.
@apgh09 (514)
• United States
19 Jan 10
hi, maybe you can try giving him pediatrics I spelled it wrong sorry, but it's the drink for kids that have vitamins in it. This may not build his appetite but it will give him the nutrients that he needs since he dose not have a big appetite. You can look it up online and you should be able to get it at your local grocer and ask his doctor about it to see if that might help.
@sassy28 (834)
• United States
21 Jan 10
I was giving him pedi-sure for awhile, but he out grew it. Tells me it is for babies and he is not a baby anymore. I am going to try the ensure or boost. He does like on occasion Slim Fast drinks. I think anything that gets vitamins into him is better than nothing.
@PastorP (1170)
• United States
19 Jan 10
Hi sassy28. So the doc did not say why your son does not eat? Well, first, pray. When you respond to this post I will flag it in my email to remind me to pray. Will he eat just a little now if suggested to him? I heard somewhere we are not really designed to eat three meals a day, but numerous small ones throughout the day. Now, I don't mean to be gross, but a question that might help. When he has a bowel movement, is the defecation hard? Soft? of a strange color or unusual odor? large, average or thin? I'm not a doc, but much into natural supplements. You might want to consider taking him to a naturopathic doctor if they are allowed in your jurisdiction. Almost concluded here, but another question--how's his school life? Any stress there? How is his general attitude? Does he appear happy? Likes to interact with other children?
@sassy28 (834)
• United States
19 Jan 10
We do pray alot for him, I actually had a prayer request for him last Wednesday night. I can not mention him during regular Sunday service, he would be upset with me. If I try to ask him if he wants something during the day not at regular meal times, usually the answer is no. The other night he wanted some popcorn, so I popped it for him, he ate maybe two handfuls and that was it. As far as his bowel movements, have not really checked on it. He has a good school life, enjoys going to school. Has pretty good grades, except for reading. Hates to read.
• United States
19 Jan 10
When my cousin was 11 years old, he had the same problem. He would love to buy snacks at the market but wouldnt eat them. Do not worry as this is just a phase most children go through. He is 15 years old now and has a normal weight. There is nothing to worry about, just make sure you make light food for him of his choice so he can eat more.
@sassy28 (834)
• United States
21 Jan 10
Thanks for the encouragment. He does love to buy the junk, or even make me fix it. But will only take a couple of bites then he is done. Hopefully he will grow out of it, then I will be complaining that he eats everything in sight.
@kareng (54598)
• United States
19 Jan 10
I had a cousin that would only eat applesauce and spaghetti and meatballs when growing up. That was it. Eventually, he grew out of it and eats better now. He survived. I would serve tacos more often if that is his favorite.
@sassy28 (834)
• United States
19 Jan 10
We do eat tacos alot. I know they always say he will eat when he is hungry enough, but he never seems to be hungry. Even when we go out to eat, I will let him order the adult meal in hopes that he will eat more, but he won't. He can actually still fit into size 6 clothes, if they were not to short.
• United States
20 Jan 10
i'd have him checked for food allergies. there might be a few things that set off his stomach every time he eats,so consequently he doesn't want to.
@ladysakurax (1161)
• Canada
20 Jan 10
hmmm my best friend got that problem too when she was young. Her mom fed her with pills that increases appetite. She told it did work but it affected her nowadays because she is oversize and suffers from some diseases. If your son gets a sudden hunger for food, make sure he controls it. If it's not too critical for his health, maybe you can leave it like that. Why not asking him what he wants to eat? He can also practice sports. Since it will use up alot of energy, he might eat a little more.
@lazuardy (152)
• Indonesia
20 Jan 10
I used to have, on my child when she was 4 years old. At first she used to eat cereal. As she was 4 years old, and we give her rice. She didn't want to, while to continue with the cereals, has no longer support its growth. Imposed even still do not want to, but that we are trying constantly to her. Until we did not realize until she would also eat rice. I think for the children at the certain age, have the habit of each. Now my child is 6 years old, began to be difficult to each rice again and she new habit are eating snacks from the shop.
@spoof10 (40)
• Philippines
19 Jan 10
My sister had the same problem with his son too, he's son didn't eat anything but, they just made him eat,.. Is there something that your son likes? like video games? toys? you can use that as a lure to make him eat, that's what my sister did. You can say "you can't have your toys back if you won't eat", or you could bring him to a psychologist to test if he has some problem may not be from the food, maybe from a sibling or a family member.. hope this helps. :)
@sassy28 (834)
• United States
19 Jan 10
We tried to even pay him to eat. I told him I would give him a dollar to eat something, and my husband yelled he would eat it for a dollar. So my son went and got a dollar of his own money and paid my husband. We may have to try taking him to a specialist. I am going back to college and one of my classes this semester is psychology, my professor seems really knowledgable, I am hoping to be able to talk with her more about this.
@jenn_ley (13)
• Philippines
20 Jan 10
that sounds really bad. he really needs help. try letting him take in iron supplements, coz as i have observed to some others, it works for them. have some laboratory checked his CBC(complete blood count) maybe he is severely anemic that he doesn't have it affected his eating appetite. another suggestion, maybe he has a problem, thats bothering him. it also could affect hes appetite...
• United States
20 Jan 10
May I suggest that your son eats as much as his body needs. Perhaps if you stopped making it an issue and let him feed his body what it is asking for. With the pressure to eat gone maybe he will get more of an appetite. I say, leave the kid alone, most other kids don't know when to stop and it shows. Be proud of your son for having self control.