Are negative family/friendshold you back? No support!

United States
January 19, 2010 10:19am CST
Hey guys, Mine are. How do you deal with it? What are the negative about? How do you stay motivated to do what you want to do with no help/support? I've been on a diet for awhile now and my friends and family offer no support. They tempt me with food all the time. Tell me i don't need to exercise. They tell me i dont need to lose weight. ect..
3 responses
@syankee525 (6294)
• United States
19 Jan 10
humm with and my song writting i dont listen to them. i just keep doing it and trying to get my songs pick up. but with you could be kind of hard, some might think you look alright and dont need to loose weight. but if you think you really do and just not whatever then i would say keep doing what you are doing for real
• United States
20 Jan 10
I really do want to lose more. Thanks for your tips i'll give them a try :)
@lowloy (316)
• United States
19 Jan 10
It seems negative responces are the worst. I have to see a doctor, because of all the negativism I have been around. It is hard to deal with. If you have a room where you can go that is peaceful with no interruptions that might be the best. A person needs to get energized after a dose of critism. Loosing wieght will improve a persons outlook I believe even with the critism that surounds you. A smaller plate could work. It mainly depends on you... I don't know what the other circumstances are.
• United States
20 Jan 10
Your right maybe i'm just making excuses for myself. Its not like there holding me down forcing me to eat and not exercise! I just wish i had someone that would support me, and understand what its like.
@smileonstar (4013)
• United States
19 Jan 10
Hello, I think you look nice in the body already that's why they dont want you to over do on your diet. how much weight you need to loose? If you want to keep on your diet then just dont pay attention much on what they say or offer you... just say NO to everything they try. if you can do this a couple of time then you will be alright.
• United States
20 Jan 10
Well thank you but i would like to lose 25-35 more pounds. Its hard to just say no when they do stuff like that.