Love and Money
January 21, 2010 12:05am CST
We all long for love, the true love. But there is a shadow that can not be ignore: money. Love or money, what do you really care for? many people abandon real love for the privilege of getting money. If you love a poor man, he can not give you too much money, lady, do you still want to marry him? or do you prefer look for another man who can give you money, but you do not really love him?
21 Jan 10
hello, bluestream! i care for the man i love, not for his have's and have not's. i wanna wake up next to him each day knowing that he and i love and care for each other, not for the bank account or countless credit cards beside me. being poor doesn't mean that one can't improve his way of living if he's diligent enough. but if laziness is the issue, i'd rather not settle down with him. i'm better off being alone. and by the way, money stinks, love doesn't. LOL! happy mylotting.
22 Jan 10
Hello, Cheiyen, you are good woman, too. You husband is lucky enough to find you and marry you and you will be happy together. Yes, if a man is poor only due to his laziness, he is not worth loving. But if he is hard working and diligent, Even if he is still poor, he is a man worth loving. If only all the women in the world had the same opinion as you do!
21 Jan 10
..hi.. When I got married, I never considered money.. I just thought love is enough for a family to survive.. and I say that it's true.. Because in loving, material things are just secondary.. I have had some observations with ladies marrying their husbands for money and they are not happy although they have material possessions.. they can buy whatever they want but deep inside, they are not genuinely happy.. For me, I'd rather chose love over money.. Why? because I do believe that if you love someone, you will do everything to make her happy and do your best to provide her needs.. Being a wife, I'd say that even if the husband doesn't have much money, you can always help each other to build your family.. The progress of the family living always lies between the wife and the husband.. If the husband knows how to earn a living and the wife knows how to manage their necessities, then I believe life would be easy for them.. although I wouldn't question those ladies making money as a criteria in searching for a husband considering the status of living we have right now..