Have you met your ideal guy but unfortunately you have to let him go?

@arystine (1275)
Philippines
January 21, 2010 6:55am CST
Just want to ask if you have experienced meeting someone who is so ideal, a boyfriend/husband material. Someone who shares similar interests like yours, someone who makes you laugh. Someone who listens and can have good conversation with. But you have to let go of that person because of your different goals in life which can hardly meet and be compromised. Sigh. I have experienced this and it is just so sad to finally meet Mr. Right but have to let go to make him happy with his chosen path.
3 responses
@dhysanne (451)
• Philippines
22 Jan 10
Yes I did. But he came at the wrong time. Well, I guess that's life. Sometimes you have to let go someone you love. It was a real heart break. And if only I can turn back the time, I will do anything to make it up with him. Nice topic!
@arystine (1275)
• Philippines
22 Jan 10
Yes, it seems as if there is always that "wrong time" which hinders a relationship to bloom. It hurts to let go knowing that it would have been the greatest love of your life. :-) Thanks for the response.
@Ladyslipper (1330)
• Philippines
21 Jan 10
Hi Arystine! Yes I did. First, it was because eventually our relationship became a long distance one. We were separated by our work. Second, difference in Religion. I was converted to his Religion but still it was not enough. The long distance relationship never worked for both of us. He was someone I ever dreamed of. He was my first love though he was never my first boyfriend. Ever since we were in highschool I already love him and it was the same for him. But then, he just got the confidence to court me when were were already graduating in College. He was an ideal husband. I was also his first girlfriend. A lot of our schoolmates were jealous of me when they've learned that I'm already his girlfriend. A lot of girls in our school like him not just because of his physical appearance but also because of his brains. He is very smart and intelligent. He was so sweet. He told me that the reason he never courted anyone else and he just had his first girlfriend which was me at the age of 22 already because he said he wants to make sure that his first girlfriend will also be his wife. He adores me so much and whenever I am with him I feel like I am the most beautiful girl in the world. I was actually the one who ended our relationship. I hurt him so much for him to hate me. :( Now, I already have my own family (baby boy and hubby).
@arystine (1275)
• Philippines
22 Jan 10
Wow, what a story. It seems as if he's really your soulmate. If you don't mind my asking, why did you end the relationship when it seems as if you're perfect for each other? Sounds like he's really hurt.
@ANIME123 (2473)
• United States
22 Jan 10
Yes ,but oh well you know life goes on you get over it. Dont worry you will find someone else that is also your ideal guy.