money is not everything for me

India
January 24, 2010 12:41pm CST
hi i love a girl and i want to marry with her but her father want a rich man which i am not. but i want to marry with her on any cost, now i realise that money is everything for people.is that true.what you think about money
5 responses
@gracce (335)
• India
25 Jan 10
Hi,money is not everything but he is her father, he is concern about her future, its is also true that without money we all faces problems in each & every stage of life,don't give up, try hard to earn more and convince her father.
• India
25 Jan 10
hi i know that dear that her father want to secure the future of her daughter and that's why he is asking for rich man. he didn't realize that her daughter feel happy when she with me. i am not earning so much now a days but i will be earning a lot one day or other day.so how will i impress her father and make realize that i am the best one for her.
@gracce (335)
• India
25 Jan 10
Trust me love is the most powerful thing in the world, you will be a rich man and as you said she loves you & happy with you so both of you just wait for sometime,you just concentrate on your work, don't worry his dad will definitely impressed by you as he only wants her dauhter to be happy.
24 Jan 10
Nope money is not everything as whilst it can make life easier it is not a mark of how successful you are. Finding hapiness is a true mark of being successful because unless you are happy then no amount of money will make any difference. In a way I can uderstand where your girl's father is coming from and is only looking out for his daughter. But being rich will not prove that. What I would say is that proving to him that you are capable of looking after her by showing that you are hard working, capable of earning good money and sensible with it may help to change his mind, especially as he seems to be focussing on money rather than love.
• India
25 Jan 10
hi thanks for adivsing me. i really appreciated your thought about this matter.but my goal is to get her not to impress her father.so what would you think what should i do .
@umabharti (3976)
• India
24 Jan 10
hi,when love is there then money isnt a thing.if u do not reallylove then some or the other reason comes in between and u depart from eachother.she should take a deciosn.not her father.it does depend on u how nice u look after her adn how much she lves and want s to be withu .Money is not everything.but to live it is needed.
• India
25 Jan 10
Hi umabharti, i have so hard feeling towards that girl but still i can't get her only because of low bank balance.so according to you what will i do to get her.
@besthope44 (12145)
• India
7 Jul 10
Well money is just a portion of life, but it cannot make life alone. True human values are not recognized by people, they value money more than human values love and affection.
@sushie93 (1359)
• France
29 Jan 10
Your future situation depends on the girl, do her really want you? If she really love you, maybe she'll don't care about her parents and will mary with you. Your girl must make a choice, you or her parents, a rich man or a poor man, but i think if she really love you, she 'll go with you but if she choose a rich man, she's very material girl, because love is rare and it's "true" and money are just material, it's not more important than true love! Hum, sorry i stop my novel. Today, our world is a poor world because it's dominated by the material is very sad, most of things today costs money, even go to a WC in a public place costs money -_-'. Everybody want money and some people is doing very bad/unkind things just for money, it's pathetic, our world is pathetic.