Letting go,is just another way to say "i will always love you so "

@jaiho2009 (39019)
Philippines
January 24, 2010 8:11pm CST
Hello dear friends,mylotters,mere bhai/s,sister/s, "letting go is just another way to say i will always love you so" What greater love it could have been,seeing someone you love so dearly leaving out of our lives? Can you bear the pain of saying goodbye if it means his/her happiness? This just came up to me...when i listen to my favorite singer singing the song "Somewhere down the road". I wonder,is anyone here in mylot has ever done letting go of someone they've love so much for the sake of his/her happiness?... Or,do you think you can sacrifice your own happiness for the sake of his/her happiness? How far can you go when it comes to love...or loving someone? Share your thoughts and comments dear friends. Have a good day always everyone
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@mindrich (183)
• Philippines
25 Jan 10
For me the statement "Letting go is just another way to say I will always love you so." is the best way of giving yourself an advice to recover from the hurt feelings. This is a positive statement the reinforces someone to accept the reality about the leaving of someone you truly love.
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@jaiho2009 (39019)
• Philippines
25 Jan 10
hello mindrich, It really needs some courage to give ourselves this advice..that letting go is the best thing to show how much we love someone. I do agree with you,this is a very positive statement,and needs a lot of encouragement to oneself. It is between hurting our own,and giving freedom to our loved one for the sake of his/her happiness.Happiness for the others versus our sorrow. I wonder how many people could ever done this self sacrifice kind of love. thanks for your response and have a good day always
@Sreekala (22973)
• India
25 Jan 10
Hi dear, It has been said that the real love means ‘let the person go and do whatever he/she wants’. In other words, real love does not mean that being possessive on that person. If we really love then we should do sacrifices for that person. However, I don’t know how much it is possible in real life. I don’t think I am broadminded like this (lol). Theory and practical is really different dear. I just shared what I heard about the real love. Have a nice day to you dear.
• Philippines
25 Jan 10
it can't be helped. most specially if you truly love the person, sometimes we all have to be really selfless and let others think of us as a fool to prove ones love. listening to others advice is not always the case here. love is everything and letting go is one of the good things giving that person to some one else.
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@jaiho2009 (39019)
• Philippines
25 Jan 10
hello sister, It's definitely true..theory and in real life situation. It's really hard to tell if we can met this kind of love in real life. I also can't tell if i will be willing to let of someone i love for the sake of his happiness. But,thinking in some aspects...how to live with someone i love,and yet,knowing he doesn't love me and the worst is..he loves someone...i couldn't just imagine scenario like this. Maybe...even if it really hurts,i will let go of him,it would be difficult to accept from the start,but,it would be more painful knowing that,he is mine but his heart and mind is longing for someone.(ouch...how painful) Thanks for sharing your thoughts dear and have a good day always
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@Sreekala (22973)
• India
27 Jan 10
Hi dear, I got your points dear and agree too, it is good to leave the person who doesn't have love for us. Fortunately both of us are not in that position.
• Philippines
25 Jan 10
hello sis, i used to be in-love with a classmate back in my college. it turns out i was no match and probably imcompatible with this girl, though i never really confess. and then he fell in love with this guy. they end up being together then. but i was happy because i got over her quickly, and since then i didn't regret. but some how i think i should have at least gotten to know some of the girls in the past. damn, just to weak to be more agressive
@jaiho2009 (39019)
• Philippines
25 Jan 10
Hello Letran, Oh my,here goes again my little brother. Why do you always like to love someone far from afar? Why don't you ever try fighting or confessing your love before accepting your defeat? I never knew you are that shy my dear bro...and,i guess,you are a hopeless romantic,that is why you kept your feelings deep inside of you instead of confessing or trying to court the one you love. I hope to hear one day that,you've found the love of your life Have a good day always my dear little bro
@advokatku (4037)
• Indonesia
25 Jan 10
talking about love indeed never-ending ... because it is endless talk about love, in love there must sacrifice ...
@jaiho2009 (39019)
• Philippines
25 Jan 10
hello advokatku, Indeed..love needs a lot of sacrifice. No matter how does it hurt us or someone...there were lot of sacrifices in the name of love. Love is sweet and bitter in the some meaning...love is wonderful and a nightmare in other aspect. Love endures pain and even kill a person with martyrdom. What more a love can give,and to what extent a person can go through in the name of love? Thanks for your response and have a wonderful day always