Why girls r not proposing at first....?

India
January 26, 2010 11:17am CST
Please Mylot girls users.....? Whether any body please tell me that why girls won't propose to a boy at first even though they love one boy....i don't know girls are like this...they are asking equal right as men, but they won't propose at first ah..? Is there any reason behind this..?
3 responses
@dhysanne (451)
• Philippines
26 Jan 10
Sometimes a man loose their interest if the woman propose her feelings first. There's no challenge for them. A man loves to chase a woman he likes. And it is very shameful for us women to propose our love, we don't know what will happen next. For some guys, it's okay for women to show their feelings so that it will motivate them to make the first move.
@tap0991 (2767)
• United States
26 Jan 10
and when we guys propose its not a leap of faith? wow...
@dhysanne (451)
• Philippines
27 Jan 10
No not really...
@tap0991 (2767)
• United States
27 Jan 10
WOW...... so let me tell you something. Guys get rejected and some of my friends have asked girls to marry them and a few have been rejected and a few have been accepted. I asked both of them and they all told me that it was something that they were really nervous about. You might try to say they didnt love or show their partner enough love but I will tell you this. All of my friends were pretty much the happiest people ever with their partners and most the time there was a strong obvious showing of affection by use of little things. I am pretty sure that for MEN it is A LEAP OF FAITH TOO..... If you really want to say that just women do not know what is going to happen next after they propose. I will continue this argument for the rest of time because I know for a fact that for men it is the exact same feeling when they propose.
@tap0991 (2767)
• United States
26 Jan 10
i think its their pride for the most part. Yea I know they ask for equal rights but a lot still want the guy to pay for everything, propose, and provide for them. If it was true equality all this would be more evened out. I know one reason some girls like it when the guys do this stuff is cause the guy makes them feel like a girly girl. Sigh i wish girls would propose to me and mean it completely and not dodge out on me cause we had an argument.
@dhysanne (451)
• Philippines
27 Jan 10
You mean to say it's okay with you for a woman to propose her love to a man? Some people misinterpret a woman's intention of proposing her love, they think these kind of women are desperate, or they're easy to get. Well anyway, we all have different point view on this.
@tap0991 (2767)
• United States
27 Jan 10
Wow really are annoying me... Like honestly if your gonna say that it could show someone is desperate well it technically can be argued that guys can be viewed that way....and also when some girls do it is a show of strength. I know you didnt and never will propose to a guy because you just that kind of person.
• India
31 Jan 10
I don't know friend. Why they are not proposing at first. Even though they love one man they won't propose at first.that is their weakness. Only girls can able to explain the reason behind this.