Love is a complex issue
January 28, 2010 6:20am CST
Can one be so taken with someone unknown to them, someone you have only spoken to on the phone? How does a person you have never met bring a smile to your face when you think about him? Or the thought of him brings peace to you? Is this perhaps an indication that something is wrong somewhere in my life?
1 Feb 10
Why do you need to think that way? I dont find anything wrong in this. Being loved or to love someone are the most amazzing feelings and unless you are a saint you should not hesitate from having that pleasure. I believe there is nothing wrong in doing what makes you happy, and there is no limit to how happy you can be.
• South Africa
1 Feb 10
Trying to be a saint yes. LOL. But do you think catholics out there would agree with you. Catholic priests are not allowed to marry. Or have physical relations. I don't mind loving without the physical involved in a normal relationship. I don't mind being loved by him in the same way either. At this point I would rather have him as a friend than not at all.
1 Feb 10
Hi there, Love is really strong feeling. There are many cases like yours where many have fallen in love with someone just talking over the phone or on-line. Some are lucky to get the perfect partner for them but some have fallen in traps of cheat. This person maybe different providing you with the love, care, or support which u did not get from your family and other friends. This difference maybe one cause and other can be the age when everyone is just wanting to have someone special in their life to love. Life is no joke so please confirm the right or the wrong and then decide what you want.
31 Jan 10
love is really a complicated thing.love can indeed control someone else's life.love can make people do something out of the ordinary.one of the best love lines I heard is from a Walt Disney movie.it is Meg's line from the movie Hercules,"people always do crazy things...when they're in love".
• United States
31 Jan 10
Hi, Sisterbobo! My husband thought for a long time that it was really strange that my closest friend is someone I've only met on line. He didn't trust or believe in our great relationship. Then she was very sick, and he could see that my concern was genuine. Not too long after that, I came down with pneumonia, and he saw that she was just as concerned, and that our infrequent phone calls (due to the cost) and very frequent e-mails support a true and wonderful friendship. He asked if I could have fallen in love with him on line, and I really couldn't answer. Still, our wonderful marriage resulted from many years as best of friends, since we were children, so I guess it's equally as plausible as having an on-line friendship! Why not?
28 Jan 10
This issue happened with me too. So u r not alone. :) But now, I try to control my feeling about him, even thought it's a really hard thing to do. Because I really crush on him until now. But I don't want to waste my time just for thinking uncertain thing like this. Waiting for nothing is useless. But sometimes, i pray to God to make us meet each other, and live together in the future. hehehe...
28 Jan 10
An indication that you're falling for someone that you have never seen.. hearing probably his sweet voice and finding delight in the way he talked... having a big smile on your face with just the thought of him.. obviously, love moves in mysterious ways, but what is superficial is different from the physical aspect.. enjoy what you feel at the moment, but you need to reassess your feelings when you see him personally..