The end of the relationship
January 30, 2010 6:19am CST
I don't know whether this can be called a relationship because A has never held hands with B, not to say kiss or make love. Platonic love, you may say. But A is determined to end it because it is meaningless, useless and helpless to both. Here are the reasons. 1. They don't love each other deeply, otherwise they will break any moral or law. 2. A is 12 years older than B. When A is white-haired , maybe B is also black-haired. When A is dead, maybe B will live lonely for many years, which A thinks untolerable, because A makes B suffering. 3. A is a mother. A can not risk her daughter's happiness for a undicided and uncertain love and happiness. 4. It is a dilemma. If A says " I love you." B will think A is a disloyal wife. And IF A becomes B's wife in the futue, A maybe will be disloyal to B. So what is the use of those lip services, oily wishes or blessings or words play. Ok, let end it. But, you know A is B's postgruduate classmate, it is ok for them ot maintain their contact. They live in different places. They only meet in the QQ in a visual way. Ok, bless Both A and B once again. I am sue my suggestions to them is right. Do you think so?
30 Jan 10
I'm not sure if Ive read it somewhere or not but love breaks all barriers so I think even if A is white hair and B isn't there should be a chance for the relationship to work. When people are in love it doesnt matter what their oddities and weak points are as long as they love each other. Sometimes differences add to the challenge and when sparks fly its a little more interesting for the both of them. Yet you are true in a sense that if its really impossible that the relationship can work there must be some end to arrive at. Who knows that a relationship breaks for a stronger relationship to form later?