Why do men tend to cheat?

@tarapot (144)
Philippines
January 31, 2010 6:51pm CST
I know some men who cheat their girlfriends. I don't understand why they do that despite of the fact that they have a beautiful and caring girlfriends. I hope you can share some thoughts about this.
6 responses
theroadtomoney
@theroadtomoney (27)
• Finland
1 Feb 10
Well first of all i belive that womens cheat just as much as men does. There are just more movies about cheating men ;). And why does people cheat? Good question, maybe becouse the human is pure evil :)
tarapot
@tarapot (144)
• Philippines
1 Feb 10
Why are you so bitter with life?:) It is fun to live. Aren't you happy?
theroadtomoney
@theroadtomoney (27)
• Finland
1 Feb 10
Well i would not call my self bitter :) And yes i'm happy, i'm getting married soon :)
insurectus
@insurectus (334)
• Philippines
1 Feb 10
Nowadays this is like almost normal, Im not surprise if a man or a woman cheats, if you just look around you can see attractive people, our partner is not that perfect and you may see something to another man/woman that your partner does not possess
tarapot
@tarapot (144)
• Philippines
1 Feb 10
It becomes normal because there are a lot of people who does it. And not because it is normal, it can be right. Nobody's perfect. It is how you consider and accept the imperfections of the one you love.
Daddy Neil
@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
1 Feb 10
it's true, not only men cheat but there are also some women do cheat their partners. not only in the sweetheart stage but more when they got married. in my opinion, people cheat their partners because sometimes, they feel they are incomplete or some things lack in the relationship.
tarapot
@tarapot (144)
• Philippines
1 Feb 10
I don't agree the reason for cheating. When you really love the person, you will not cheat even when the person or the relationship lacks something. You are both imperfect, but if you do love each other, everything becomes perfect.
EARLZHAN
@EARLZHAN (934)
• Philippines
1 Feb 10
Hi there friend.. Based on my observation those guys who cheat their girlfriends are the guys who are not yet ready to have a serious relationship with their GF's. What they just want to do is to collect and select the best.
tarapot
@tarapot (144)
• Philippines
1 Feb 10
I hope they can change that way of choosing the one they want to be with for the rest of their life. Because girls have feeling too. They are not something that men can just throw away after they found out that she's not the one for them.
lilyrayne
@lilyrayne (107)
• United States
1 Feb 10
I have no idea!! But if you find out let me know too! lol ! I assume it is either because they aren't happy in the relationship they are in, they could be lacking something in their relationship that they get by cheating, maybe sometimes life throws them crazy twists and they just make the wrong choices???Who knows?!
temilolusolo
@temilolusolo (37)
• Nigeria
1 Feb 10
Any man or woman who cheats. Cheating has been part of their life.They are every where.they do not put themselves into another person's shoe.
tarapot
@tarapot (144)
• Philippines
1 Feb 10
I hope they can think about that. Because I am sure that they will not want the same thing happen to them. They can cheat their partners but at the same time they are afraid to be cheated.