The bride is not me~~~~~~~~~~

China
February 1, 2010 2:33am CST
He got married,but the bride is not me. What do you think about it when you heard your ex-boyfriend/girlfirend married while you are still sgl?? Today I find him married from his blog. We break up since 2008,and we started new life since then. But I cannot think about him when seeing the news. I want to get married too!!!Anyway,bless them.
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8 responses
@Godmother (476)
• Indonesia
1 Feb 10
It would be unfair for you bf now, if you are still getting emotional about your ex bf. He was your past, he wasn't the right guy for you and just leave him alone to find his own happiness. You should focus on your own right now. Stand strong. Don't compete him by getting married too, because the news of you getting married might not effect him at all. Only time will tell if your bf now is the right one or not. And give your boyfriend time too to explore your personality, because he too will have to find out if you are the right girl for him.. Only if both of you are convinced, then a happy marriage might be the thing to close the deal.
• China
3 Feb 10
I don't think I am still get emotional about ex bf. Just feel bad and wanna be married.You are right,only time will tell if my bf now is the right one or not.I always hope time could be faster than I fell.
@jengkol (116)
• Indonesia
1 Feb 10
there is no need to rush your selve :) one thing you need to do is just find another man and make sure that he is the one for you. getting married is easy, the hard part is how you can marrierd with the right person and make sure that you can be happy.
• China
1 Feb 10
I almost forget him since it has past 2years.I hope he married with the right one. And I hope what I've got is the right one.
• Philippines
4 Feb 10
oh. bitter. get over it and hit the gym to distract yourself. who knows, maybe your future husband is there too.
@daliaj (5674)
• India
1 Feb 10
It is quite normal to feel like this in this situation. I am sorry for you. You keep looking for the guy of your dreams. I wish you can find him and get married soon. Don't worry about it. Try to calm down yourself by changing our attention to other things such as movies, gardening, reading books, etc. to keep yourself refreshed and move from thos thoughts.
• China
1 Feb 10
I have find my guy and have a new relationship.But I don't know when will we get married~~~I feel pity but I don't know who can I talk to.
@babysun (24)
• China
4 Feb 10
I am sorry for that.i broke up with my ex-bf last year and I was deeply broken-hearted.I admit I still cannt forget him and a little bit hate him. I am still sgl now.But I am sure I could find sb else better than him.Dont anxious when u will get married.I believe ur Mr right will appear one day.:
• Philippines
16 Feb 10
go to the parlor,have a make over and start to find for a future husband..
@advokatku (4033)
• Indonesia
1 Feb 10
painful friends ... and indeed only prayer you can do for them
@abitcurious (1422)
• Philippines
2 Feb 10
I think you're just in that phase where you're wondering the could have beens in your relationship with that guy. Remember you broke up for a reason. But don't worry it's really normal to hope for something that someone has achieved. Specially the ones achieved by people close (or in your case, have been close) to us. Let it be something that stokes your fire. There is no question about you meeting someone else and be married to him, it's just a question of when. It's what you do in between to make yourself a better person that makes all the waiting worth it.