Have you ever been cheated on?

@ANIME123 (2473)
United States
February 1, 2010 8:43pm CST
Well I never could experience this because I don't want to fall in love and get hurt it has already happened to me and it's hard to heal after it. So I decided that I will be independant from now on. My friend on the other hand has been cheated on by a guy and it completely destroyed her even to this day she can not get over it because she loved him so much. The bad part is that her ex boyfriend still calls her to this day so she can't get over the pain. I still know though that she loves him, but she does not want to admit it. Still she does show sings of it. Her ex is currently living with another girl right now and he still calls her. That guy should really learn how to be honest in relationships. I don't like it when people get cheated on it really is such a sad thing. It breaks their hearts and effects people in many ways like depression or suicide. If you have been cheated on though it would be best to no longer see that person after breakup because for example since my friend keeps on answering his calls it's showing that she cares about him and that she will go back to him. Not a very good idea right their. Anyways has anybody ever cheated on you?
14 responses
• United States
2 Feb 10
Actually just recently I found out I was cheated on, and not only did she cheat on me with one person, she cheated on me with two other people!
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@ANIME123 (2473)
• United States
2 Feb 10
Woah not one, but two I'm really sorry that happened to you. I'm sure that you will find someone else though. Hopefully you will get over this. I wish you the best of luck.
@delrene (158)
• Philippines
2 Feb 10
well I've been cheated on many times. But that doesn't mean that I need to stop loving another guy. I even thought of cheating with another guy too. But I've decided not to do that. I just wait. I can feel if a guy is serious or not. Luckily I found the right guy
@ANIME123 (2473)
• United States
2 Feb 10
I hope that you will find the right guy. Theirs someone out there for everyone. It's good that you decided that to cheat back because then that would be like doing it back. I hope you will find the right one that is just perfect for you.
• United States
3 Feb 10
I have been cheated so many times that I can't even remember how many, it is a very devastating feeling, especially when you love your partner, the problem is that many guys and women thinks that it is their fault, that they didn't do good enough and that's why they got cheated, that is wrong, betrayal is betrayal, and it is not their fault, there is nothing to be ashamed of. If you are cheated by your love one you should forget that person and say to yourself that you are wonderful and that person doesn't deserve you, and the most important thing don't put yourself in a position where you don't want to be in a relationship, love is beautiful and everybody should have an opportunity, remember that there are still good guys outside.
@Ladyslipper (1330)
• Philippines
2 Feb 10
Hi Anime! I have been cheated on once by my bf. However, I have forgiven him. He admitted what he did and left the girl. The girl is aware that he has a girlfriend since that girl is also our officemate. The girl has a boyfriend too. All I can say is that the girl has no shame. Everyone in the office knew what has happened. She thought that my boyfriend and I would breakup and my boyfriend is going to choose her. When my boyfriend told him they are over she did crazy things. She told everyone that she is pregnant. She would sometimes act that she would faint and that she hates the smell of this and that. My boyfriend did not believe her and said that if she is pregnant then it would not be his child and could be the chid of the girls' boyfriend. Maybe she thought my bf will go back to her by acting that she is pregnant. It turned out she is not really pregnant. She started dating another man who is still our officemate but then she still has a boyfriend. I'm not really sure what is her problem. If she is not happy with her boyfriend then why not just leave him before engaging into another relationship. My boyfriend has changed a lot and we are now married and we have a 4 months old baby boy. He is a very responsible husband and father.
@RobtheRock (2485)
• United States
2 Feb 10
I've been cheated on twice. It didn't hurt me so much since I understood the temptations that people face. It was easier for me to face because I was the other guy in a relationship. I messed around with this girl who was dating a Sheriff's deputy. I moved from the city and lost contract with her. I've since dated two women who I know have cheated on me. It doesn't bother me as much now since I'm older and know that it's up to the person and how strong they are within themselves, rather they'd cheat or not.
@illfavors (592)
• United States
2 Feb 10
To be honest, I don't know if I have ever been cheated on. I have never had any of my old relationships that I had been in tell me that they cheated. I may have been cheated on, but was not told about it, or found out about it.
• Philippines
2 Feb 10
I have cheated for many times by my ex. And it ain't a good experience, but in a way it's a lesson learned. It made me become a better person. Somewhat I think I can say I get more picky with guys and never settle for anything less. He had been one of those worst cheaters that I know of, however I realized that if I still have all the hatred in my heart for him, it won't do anything good for me. I try to think that God never will give me something that I can't deal with.. I'm glad I had moved on.. Now I'm having a good life, enjoying my life. Hanging out with friends and welcoming new suitors..
• Jamaica
2 Feb 10
yes i have been in that situation before and to make matters even worst the girl was my best friend. i was truly hurt broken and also because i had shorten my vacation just to return home to see him and to find out that he was hinting on my best friend and she was giving into it just ripped my heart apart. it took me awhile to get over the guy still but i did it and now i have happily moved on with my life.Thanks be to God.
• Philippines
2 Feb 10
Actually I don't know where I stands to this situation, as my past relationship perhaps, I was the 3rd party...yet I know the guy had had a girlfriend when we were...its a hard feeling.. I'm always in denial when the girl had asked me about us.. but it don't make any sense to her, she wanted to figure out! she keep on interrogating me day by day. In that case, I confronted the guy to stop her or let him decide but he keeps telling me that he wanted to break up with her just for the right time...i'd waited and waited but it become more complicated than usual... until I can't keep the secret. I'd told her finally... so then the three of us fought back until we decided to split up. I thought we were cheating and blaming on each other up-side-down...
• India
2 Feb 10
well it has happened many time . been with friend or partner . mY friend whom i trusted had betrayed me by stealing my idea and starting his venture and my girl who was good to me for 3 years ditched me and married some other person. so these things are part of life and its learning cheers
@rhan04 (309)
• Philippines
2 Feb 10
Cheating is my favorite topic in a relationship..it's because I have a few to share .
@machivado (529)
• Indonesia
2 Feb 10
I once had a girl that I liked. First she said she won't come back to her ex-boyfriend, but after a short while when I thought I came closer to her and she had a birthday, suddenly she ignored me and in the next 2 days I saw her with her ex-boyfriend again..What a feeling I had a back then. But when I overcame it and keeps my head high and open I find it interesting having such experience. Don't easily give up your passion, or you'll regret it later when you have enough courage to face such experience.
@brymel25 (286)
• Philippines
2 Feb 10
Luckily, I have never been cheated on. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years and we never had problems on third parties. I guess both of us are afraid to cheat because we know that it can only give painful results. My boyfriend by the way has been cheated on by his ex-girlfriends. He knows how painful it is so he has promised me that he will never let me go through that kind of pain. Well, hopefully... =)
@p3ks626 (6550)
• Philippines
2 Feb 10
I had an experience of being cheated on by my third boyfriend. We were having a relationship and I didnt know that he had another girlfriend and the new girlfriend actually knows about me but she just tolerated their craziness. I found out about it when a text message was accidentally sent to me when it was suppose to be hers. It was hard at first but looking on the brighter side of it, it happened for a very good reason. And tell your friend that there's something more prepared for her. And it would be best that she would move on and not to receive the calls anymore.