Do you think love marriage is better than arranged marriage?

Australia
February 1, 2010 8:57pm CST
Hi friends, Now a days love marriage are increasing to a great extent and many succeed ending up in marriages with their parents permission, but most of the parents accept it because of no choice. "Do you think that Love marriage is better then arranged marriage?" According to me Arranged marriage is better.I feel Love marriage Hurts the feeling of parents and make them lose their belief on us.When they think about us a lot of how we should be brought up and other things, they will surely take right decision in this matter. Why do youngsters today don't rely on parents for this matter when they mostly seek suggestions from them for all the other issues? Share your opinions.
2 responses
• Philippines
2 Feb 10
for me, arranged marriage is a big no no! love is the center of the marriage, along with God as the main source of love. to have a happy and successful marriage, love should be present within the marriage vows. not just arrangement with the family.
• Australia
2 Feb 10
Hi,Thanks for your response.I accept love should be present in the marriage vows but do you think most of them make right choices in choosing their partner.
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• Philippines
2 Feb 10
if there is love, everything will follow...
@SteveJi (78)
• China
2 Feb 10
I think love marriage is more better than arranged. Youngsters had learned how to live for long time, they have their own thought, they can decide by themselves.
• Australia
2 Feb 10
Yeah fine.Thanks for your response.But do you feel you won't find your best partner in arranged marriage?Is it fine to break the expectations of the parents? It is just to share and know what today's generation think. Feel free to share your opinion.
• China
3 Feb 10
To break the expectations of parents? Why and how? I think the expectation of parents is their son/daughter procuring true happiness. They youngsters find their true love, their parents would be happy too.