Ever felt like your the third wheel??

@ANIME123 (2466)
United States
February 2, 2010 6:30pm CST
I know that I have and it's not the best feeling in the world because you know it feels like you are out of place and it really feels awkward. I do not like the feeling of being the third wheel because when my friend she wants to meet with a guy that she really likes, but she wants me to come along I just don't want to come. Still I accompany her because I want to support her. Maybe I should bring another friend along so I wont feel like the third wheel. It's just weird to me to be in between two people that like each other. From now I should probably not go where my friend wants me to go or should I be a good friend and accompany her??? Any thoughts anybody I need helpful advice.
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@prasunsam (356)
• India
3 Feb 10
you should do what your heart says and should stand by your decision.Am i right???
@ANIME123 (2466)
• United States
3 Feb 10
Yes it is always wise to do that. Very good advice always listen to my heart then. LoL that reminds me of a song.
• India
3 Feb 10
Are you talking about the titanic song or any other one.Anyone who knows about better love songs........please tell
@dawnald (85135)
• Shingle Springs, California
3 Feb 10
It's one thing to go to a party and two people get into an intense conversation and you feel left out. But to go out with somebody knowing that they're looking for a guy to pick up just strikes me funny. Yeah, I'd bring another friend or just not go.
@ANIME123 (2466)
• United States
3 Feb 10
Yes I know right today my friend asked me to go with her, but I said I would only go if my other friend came and I got lucky so it wasn't bad because I finally didn't feel like the third wheel.
@geogirl85 (116)
• United States
3 Feb 10
I don't really have any single friends, so haven't really been in this position much, since it is completely different hanging out with an established couple vs. two people trying to get to know each other. They are pretty good at making sure I don't feel left out, and I've even gone out to eat with two married couples (and I am single) and not felt out of place at all. Seems like if your friend is asking you to be in situations where you aren't comfortable, then she isn't being a very good friend.