What do you feel when you respond question and the reply is not enthusiastic?
By lainey_chuan
@lainey_chuan (87)
China
February 3, 2010 11:46pm CST
When I responded someone's question and they reply me not enthusiastic and a cold fish.I felt uncomfortable.You can no replay ,but if you do that,I really felt may be I'm wrong? May be I counldn't answer your question.I felt a little sad about that.what about yours?
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6 responses
@Zhizho (1350)
• Indonesia
4 Feb 10
Sometimes, I felt so.actually, respond or no is a choice but we need and hope to get positif input.Anyway, a few days ago, I responded some topic and someone responded my respons.I felt that she coerce me to answer her question only because I labelling something that I did not agree as bad thing.It's so uncomfortable.
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@lainey_chuan (87)
• China
4 Feb 10
Hi zhizho
Now I feel better,what about you?Don't be sad about that.I have understand we just need to enjoy responding the topic and express our feelings.That's the important.If anyone made us unfriendly,went away from this discussion.And I believe there are still have many people welcome us.lol....
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@atv818 (1980)
• United Arab Emirates
4 Feb 10
My suggestion will be is not to get hurt. The fact that they have given you a response means that they value your comment. You don't expect people to have the same enthusiasm or opinion. Just respect them as they are and carry on. Life is too short. Enjoy what you do regardless of the response!!!
@lainey_chuan (87)
• China
4 Feb 10
Thank you very much!I should not fuss about so many.But ,when it happened,I just a little sad and I felt ignoring.Just calm down,if someone is really unenthusiasm I would like far away from that discussion and in the other hand just like you said,not to get hurt,they have given the attention.
@GardenGerty (157551)
• United States
4 Feb 10
There are certain people that actually seem like they are arguing with me when i respond and they comment back. It makes me not want to respond to them again. I am kind of an old lady, and sometimes people half my age sort of lecture me, and treat me like I am dumb. I tend to stay away from their discussions after that.
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@lainey_chuan (87)
• China
4 Feb 10
Yh,I'm really understand your feelings.I don't know why.Although my english poor and I do my best to answer the question and express my experience.Yh,I should far away from their discussions like you.Thanks for your answers!!
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
6 Jan 13
hi Lainey chuan I feel then like the person could have cared less that I even responded to his or her discussion. I want to be noticed and get feedback from my response not just a thank you or worse a blank s tare and no comment at all.I like to see the discussion maker comment and keep all of us talking to him or her as then it becomes fun to be here and take part in this discussion.
@lainey_chuan (87)
• China
4 Feb 10
haha, your opinions is funny.yh May be I should think like:oh,they are lazy.lol.... I feel better than before.And may be I don't pay more attention about their replay.The most important to participate our feelings.Thank you!
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@lainey_chuan (87)
• China
4 Feb 10
yh Its feel so bad.They may not attach importance to our answer.But the important is not their reply,is sharing our feelings from other people.That is the charm of mylot.lol.....
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