What Is Your Fear

@lampar (7584)
United States
February 4, 2010 7:28pm CST
Do you have fear? What is that scare you the most in all your living day, how do you deal with it and overcome that fear of your . Or you are the exception among many people, there is nothing in the world will scare you because you consider yourself the bravest person in the world, nothing is going to scare you no matter what happen. Let hear what you have to say in this discussion.
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@lazerm (478)
• United States
5 Feb 10
I fear God's wrath; but other than that not really...
@lampar (7584)
• United States
5 Feb 10
Yes, that should be a really scaring scenario. lazerm !! Thank for sharing .
@lampar (7584)
• United States
5 Feb 10
That is a really scary scenario. Laz... Thank for sharing your fear.
@ckyera (17332)
• Philippines
6 Feb 10
yeah, same here...but don't you think God's wrath is already on its way? hehe with all the calamities, and wars & everything that's happening around? huh!
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@ckyera (17332)
• Philippines
5 Feb 10
hello lampar... actually i don't have much fear in my life. but of course i also feel scared even on some small things...hehe human nature! but one thing that i really fear is the day that i will become a burden to my family or to anybody else...that's something that i don't want to happen. i don't like the feeling of being useless & yeah being a burden to anyone else due to some reasons like disease...or what. i hope this will not happen to me coz i still don't know how to face it. but for know what i just do is to pray and hope that this thing will not come to me...
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@lampar (7584)
• United States
5 Feb 10
Yes, having a serious disease is bad itself and also will burden family member or your love one, because they have to spend much time to look after you, i also wish it will never have to happen to either one of us in the future. This fear of your is quite realistic since the probability of getting a serious disease is not low nowadays but also chances of getting cure is quite high too when medical science is advancing yearly. We just have to remain optimistic and keep our faiths steady and pray for the grace of God. Thank for sharing your view. My friend!
@lampar (7584)
• United States
6 Feb 10
With him the all mighty one along you, nothing is impossible in your life, many times a true faith in God will overcome any fear your have, most of the great religions in the world will tell you that.
@ckyera (17332)
• Philippines
6 Feb 10
yup & i guess no one will like to be a burden to their loved ones, its not only they will spend much time & effort to take care of us, but of course they will also spend a lot of money! even if science & technology is advancing, still its not cheap to get cure for some disease... well, if i will be just a disable person with un curable disease that will bring much burden to my family, i would want to die instead of suffering...hehe but anyway, you are right, just be optimistic & put our faith to God. with Him, nothing id impossible...
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@rsa101 (37933)
• Philippines
5 Feb 10
Well right now I think my greatest fear is really losing something over like money, property or something that have value for me. I also have fear in gambling something like putting money in business or taking risk that deals greatly on money. I do hope I could counter that because I know money will not grow if you leave it on yourself but it will work for you if you know how to put it and let it grow for you.
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@rsa101 (37933)
• Philippines
6 Feb 10
Well one lesson I learned about fear is that it is mostly created by your own primal instinct. What you can do about it is sometimes face it and confront it rather than avoid it. Avoiding it will somehow aggravate that further like you are trying to make the fear to go deeper in your system. What I learned from a seminar is that face it and make the failures not be a tool for you to be discourage in life but an instrument to make you stronger. I know it is not easy but in time you might finally conquer your own fears if you will persist on wanting to eradicate it in your system.
@lampar (7584)
• United States
6 Feb 10
One thing i find out about fear is after i overcome the feeling, then it is just nothing, many times it is our mind tricking us, it is less of what actually can hurt us but rather it is the uncertainty that created the fear. I agree in some occasions, confronting our fears is better than avoiding them.
@lampar (7584)
• United States
5 Feb 10
If i would to be you in this case, i probably will try to lower my bet on gambling or investment on business to make me feel less fear, knowing the fact i will not lose it all when bad luck strike, i can still depend on some of the money i have to survive. I don't know how you deal with your fear, but i am sure you can figure it out soon or later to overcome it as time pass. Thank for your response. Happy mylotting to you!!
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@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
5 Feb 10
i dont have any fear before. its like que sera sera what will be will be.... but i changed so much since i had my son. i am so scared to get fired or to lose my job for i dont like my son to hunger, i am scraed of the last flood that happened to us last september, i fear also that my mom cant not surpass the sickness that pinned her to a wheel chair. as i matured i think i became a scared person but i guess it is for the better for it makes me strive more and to be aware more.
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• Philippines
6 Feb 10
we are more responsible when we matured and while we are still young we care less. when we are more responsible we take charge and have more on our shoulder and our heads. i am slowly losing my hair because of this. har har har. lucky i only have one child har har har.
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@lampar (7584)
• United States
6 Feb 10
I guess less responsibility means you have less to lose, indirectly means less burden on you to fear on losing anything important after all, there is nothing for you to lose make you take greater risks and can afford to overlook any fear in whatever you do.
@lampar (7584)
• United States
5 Feb 10
Yes, Pal!! As we grow older, it seem like we are subjected to more fears than when we are young. May be as one has more responsibility to shoulder, like having children, aging parent or even bigger family to take care, then he has more to worry how to deal with them whenever calamity strike, all these becoming part of a greater fear we face as we grow old. When i am young, there is so little fear i had and i usually can overcome it easily but it is quite a different scenario when getting old now. Sound like we are going to have more headaches as we grow because we fear more instead of less..... lol... Thank for sharing your fears. Cheer !!
@coolcoder (2018)
• United States
6 Feb 10
Here are a few of my fears: -- Hell -- Losing my parents -- Imprisonment, either physical or mental -- Barack Obama's radical socialist agenda (and no, I'm not joking around with this one) -- Heights -- Enclosed spaces -- Running out of books to read (I'm not joking with this one, either...I'm genuinely afraid that I'm going to run out of books to read and will be forced to buy these stupid e-books)
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@lampar (7584)
• United States
6 Feb 10
I hear that loud and clear. Thank for your response, and cheer!!
@lampar (7584)
• United States
6 Feb 10
You are such a joker, laz!
• Philippines
22 Feb 10
what scared me most was ridding on a rides like roller coaster hahahhaha.. and also ghost am afraid so.. i dont know maybe i drink a lot of coffee before thats why..
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@lampar (7584)
• United States
22 Feb 10
HI, lucy... drink a lot of coffee keep you awake, it will not make you afraid of ghost...actually riding roller coaster is fun, but it is not suitable for people who has heart problem, there is plenty of excitement when you are a passenger in that ride. lol! Cheer!
• Philippines
5 Feb 10
I have this unexplainable fear of being alone in public places, and riding in public vehicles probably because I became so much used to riding a private car. I was not like this back then so most probably the comfortable life we are quite experiencing now is the contributing factor to this fear. Plus all the bad news around the community are what's making me fear more. One Bible verse that talks about fear really caught my attention. It says that "Love overcomes all fear." being so enclosed with my self.built fears, this verse has been my guide to MOST, if not all of my decisions.:) It helped me a lot overcome my fears.
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@lampar (7584)
• United States
5 Feb 10
May be you have terrible experience before while riding in public vehicle, that make you fear of being alone in public places and in public vehicle. If not, psychologist might be able to explain why you think like this, a trained therapist will have a better understanding of your unexplainable fear on this. Thank for your response in here. and continue happy Mylotting , my friend!!
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@seksiconnie (1173)
• Philippines
5 Feb 10
fears... plural .. haha, cockroach number one in my list,i shout everytime i see one, in the bathroom and most specially when im to fall asleep... i fear of dying... everyones afraid of it..
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@coolsudan (313)
• India
5 Feb 10
i am scared of a lot of things like i am scared of heights and a lot of things . but i havent really done anything yet to fight it. i have been running from all the problems all the time and this is the way i have survived .you can say that i am gud at running from all the situations .i want many things but the fear of getting rejected or not getting that thing keeps me away from not getting .
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@lampar (7584)
• United States
5 Feb 10
Yes, you sound like you have too many fears in your life, there are just too many to list all in this discussion, don't worry, that is perfectly fine with me. May be you will make up your mind from running away in all the situations, then you will reduce many of your fears into just a couple later. I wish the best of everything , my friend! First and forth most, you can overcome those many things that scare you and don't have to live in fear anymore. Thank for your response here, my friend!
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@bianca89 (129)
• Philippines
5 Feb 10
what I fear is about what's happening with our nature now.. like those earthqukes :( I'm getting paranoid and I can't imagine myself if that happen to me..I'm really scared.
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@lampar (7584)
• United States
5 Feb 10
Nature calamity is fearsome, there is not much human can do to avoid that calling of our mother nature except may be remain vigilant and aware of your surrounding , i guess. it is not paranoid on your part, my friend, the fear of natural disaster is quite real to many people especially so many big and devastating hurricane, earthquake and tsunami had hit our earth lately. Thank for sharing your fear here. Continue Happy Mylotting !
• India
12 Feb 10
fear is become a perfect in social life as well as in professional life but to over come it i close my eyes and breath slowly
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@lampar (7584)
• United States
12 Feb 10
OK! may be i understand your statement, nice way to overcome your fear, just close your eyes and breath slowly. I hear it loud and clear. Thank for your response.
• Indonesia
6 Feb 10
I have fear with dog. I don't know why. Maybe i got trauma to meet a dog. When i was a little, a dog ever pursued me, and i was really scared at that time. Since that moment, i feel so scared when i hear a dog barking. Now because of dog, i have to walk miles away to my office, because the nearest way to reach my office, living 3 dogs, and they are always in the street in the morning, the time i go to work. I always wish that i will never meet any dog in the street.
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• Philippines
5 Feb 10
zombie movies scares me, wondering that zombies are really exists. i am also scared at heights, honestly im not a brave person like others.. but this is me, how i wish i could conquered all my fears.
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@lampar (7584)
• United States
5 Feb 10
Hi, nek... i wish zombies is not real in our world, but i am not sure anyone ever notice one in his life time; even though it happened in movie. Thank for sharing your fear here.
• India
5 Feb 10
I do have fear with black magic because they divert our mind and turn us to other way. All this witch and black magician i do really scary with them.
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@lampar (7584)
• United States
5 Feb 10
It sure bad to have a black magic spell on you, they are creepy too. Thank for your response.
• India
5 Feb 10
I fear for nothing
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@lampar (7584)
• United States
5 Feb 10
Good for you , the bravest of all human being!
@shylade (3132)
• Philippines
5 Feb 10
hi lampar! i believe every people have his own fear/s. there is no exception to that. its not about how brave you are, but its about how strong your faith to GOD is. even the bravest person has his weak point and fears in life. but i believe that even people will consider you weak but you have strong faith in GOD then what to fear about. just have faith in God and all your fears will melt away.
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@lampar (7584)
• United States
5 Feb 10
I can't agree more with you , my friend! We are just a bunch of mortal being , we all have fear inside us, we just have to learn how to overcome it, have faith in God is one way to overcome our fear especially if we understand and remember the words of Psalm chapter in our heart. Thank for your response, and happy mylotting!!
• India
5 Feb 10
I had fear of darkness but i guess not any more. I wud feel there is someone else trying to harm me when I am alone in dark. Thanks to all the horror movies i see.lol But now I have become more strong. I fought several times to overcome my fears and i know I am improving.
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@lampar (7584)
• United States
5 Feb 10
Hi, emerald! I think the same fear about darkness too, especially a totally dark environment, it always give me a creepy feeling somethings are lurking around in total darkness; unfortunately, i am still the same while you had overcome it. I 'm quite happy for you that you are improving and becoming stronger...my friend. lol!! Thank for responding.
@erdhee (57)
• Indonesia
5 Feb 10
i think everyone have something that they fear. and for me, my biggest fear is when i fail to become successful in the future. and cant live my life with my family. too difficult to imagine if that happened. but if fate had written down like that, i can only go through it with resignation. and i should be ready with destiny.
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@lampar (7584)
• United States
5 Feb 10
If it is fate, you can't do much about it, my friend, you just have to accept when it come. "Behind every success, there is a failure " as the saying go!! Thank for your response, and cheer!!
@davidshin (143)
• United States
5 Feb 10
Everyone is scared of something, whether something big or small, whether they know it or not. I personally can say that I'm afraid of rejection. I haven't tried asking a girl out, or is outgoing, because of this fear. What I do, is confirm my outcome, or weigh my chances. So I pretty much try out everything to test out the outcomes and if the outcomes weigh a lot more towards the positive side then I go for it. Recently, I've been trying to be more outgoing, and started, well taking chances(?) :D. Life is a lot more fun, and yeah, I think that's how I'm dealing with my fear. :D
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@lampar (7584)
• United States
5 Feb 10
I wish you good luck , my friend! Every rejection is a lesson for you to learn, if you keep trying and correct your move, you will overcome rejection and soon girl will want to go out with you even before you realize it. You are right, life is a lot more fun than it seem to be, get out and be outgoing and don't let rejection put you down. OK...Pal!! Thank for your response , my friend.
• Romania
5 Feb 10
I am really scared of bees.Maybe because of the past when i was bitten by many bees or maybe because of the movis i've seen.Everytime i see a bee i freak out and i think ill never escape from this
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@lampar (7584)
• United States
5 Feb 10
Once you are bitten by bee, it may have scare the hell out of you, i understand that feeling of fear on bee. It is quite common among people who had been stung by bee before and they are scare whenever bee is around, that is hard to overcome the fear. Thank for sharing your view.