can i propose to a girl who is a 1 year senior to me in my college?

India
February 5, 2010 7:12am CST
friends i really need ur help in this issue .. i have been in love with a girl for the past 6 months . . . the problem is she is one year senior to me .. do you think that i should propose to this girl . is there anything wrong in loving a girl elder to me ... i cant find a better place to get suggestions other than mylot ... help me out of this ...
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24 responses
• India
6 Feb 10
No..... Its wrong to propose to a girl elder then you.................
• India
6 Feb 10
why do you think so ...
@Rhazelle (356)
• Canada
6 Feb 10
... propose or ask out? If she's not your girlfriend... I would not suggest proposing to her. She'll think you're uber creepy. Nothing wrong with being in love with someone only 1 year older though. Just ask her out or something.
@Rhazelle (356)
• Canada
6 Feb 10
Also what the hell? 6 months? Don't propose to someone you've only been in love with for 6 months. Holy crap. That's not even long enough to make sure your feelings are true and stable.
• India
5 Feb 10
nothing wrong in that dude make her feel your love she will surely accept you... age doesn matter...dont miss this valentine's day wish you enjoy with that senior and have a good date...have confidence see her eyes look into it and tell that you love her boldly...go with hand full of flowers and try to know what she likes the most and surprise her... wish you enjoy this valentine day with her....
• India
5 Feb 10
thank you dude you have given a lot of cofiddence to me i will surely propose to her this valentines day ....
@pandaeyes (2068)
5 Feb 10
When you say propose,are you meaning marriage? Or do you mean ask her out ? Age is such a strange thing. When you are young,everyone thinks that you should stick with your own aged people but as you progress through life, age becomes less and less important. After all ,are your own parents the exact same age? I think maybe one is older than the other aren't they? My own parents were 10 years in difference.
• India
5 Feb 10
i am meaning ask her out
@sassy28 (835)
• United States
5 Feb 10
If the feeling is mutual, and neither of you have a problem with the age difference, then go for it. Best of luck to you both, maybe next weekend would be a good time to ask her since it is Valentines Day.
• India
6 Feb 10
ya i think i will propose to her this valentines day
• India
6 Feb 10
Hi friend, It is better that u can propose your love when ur studies will going to be finished. Otherwise the college students will tease the girl that she is loving a boy who is younger then her. But age is not a matter. U can Propose UR love with full of confidence. She will be accept if your loving truely. No one can reject the true person. I think now you maintain ur relationship as a good friend.Thats all.
• China
6 Feb 10
Oh,my friend,i have ever had a similar experience with you.But why did you stand pat,no no no,that may not be a good choice,no man thinks more highly than i do of the passionism as well as courage of you who have just addressed your issue,but know that my friend,one year is really not a problem,you have no generation gap.o ahead,my friend,the only thing you have to fear is fear itself.
@rsa101 (13337)
• Philippines
6 Feb 10
I see no problem with this arrangement. You could propose but of course you have to accept if she would be comfortable with that. So I guess the best way to know is to tell her what you feelings are for her.
@donna22 (1120)
6 Feb 10
Just realised the "6 months" part. It is not the one year age gap that is the problem here but that! 6 months is to short a time to know if you love someone enough to wnat to marry them. There are couples who date for many years before taking such a big step. It is also not clear you are actually in a relationship with this girl or just fancy her.
@donna22 (1120)
6 Feb 10
Are you a couple? Then I dont see the problem. It is only a 1 year age gap, nothing special at all. I really do not see how this would be a problem for you your gf or anyone else for that matter.
@jpso138 (7844)
• Philippines
6 Feb 10
Well, I think you are familiar in the saying "Age does not matter". But in your case, I do not see any problem at all considering that the age gap is not that far. If you feel that this is the right girl for you then there is no reason for you not to do what you are planning. I wish you best and hope that you will be able to do what you wish.
@saanjh (784)
• India
6 Feb 10
Of course you should purpose her, doesn't matter she is one year senior than you, first you need to know her feeling and for this you should purpose her. Even my boyfriend is also one year junior than me but he loves me lot and I also love him lot and cares for each other, of course if the feeling is mutual nothing to worry because every thing is possible in love and war.
• Hong Kong
6 Feb 10
yes you can propose to her that you like so much of what she is, and consider that you can be busted but still don't give up okay bro.
@nocturn98 (956)
• Venezuela
6 Feb 10
There is nothing wrong with proposing to somebody older than you as long as the feeling is mutual. One year is not that big a gap. If what you are feeling is true then you can't go wrong with it. Good luck.
@BART78 (2933)
• Canada
6 Feb 10
it's 100 percet ok, go ahead and tell him your feelings you never know she might have the same feeling with you and she's only waiting for you to disclose it first..
@richauni (108)
• India
6 Feb 10
according to me its not a big issue in this generation where every people is too forward. if you are really love that girl then you should, wheather she is 1 year senior to you or junior. you can propose to that girl. its not a big deal where people can only think about there ownself.
@binagupta (628)
• India
6 Feb 10
when love happen then it never see weather that person is senior or junior, old or young it can happen with any person so i think ya we can purpose to a girl who is one class senior
@Ladyslipper (1330)
• Philippines
6 Feb 10
I don't see any problem with it. Aside from that its is just a one year gap so its not a big deal for me. As long as you both love each other then it will be fine. A relationship's success does not rely on the couple's age but on their maturity and for me that is what's important.
@lilyye (15)
• China
6 Feb 10
If you're really in love with the girl, then go for it. Life is short. Don't even give yourself a chance to regret something you didn't do.
@dodo19 (31312)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
5 Feb 10
If you guys both really love each other, then why shouldn't you get married. Why shouldn't you propose? So long as you both really love each other, then I don't really think that age really matters that much. I think that you should totally go for it, and I wish you luck.