Is it good to propose your best friend?

@ajithlal (14568)
India
February 6, 2010 10:20am CST
Sometimes we might lose our friendship if we propose our best friend. Is it good to propose your best friend if you know you are in love with that person.
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@shan0822 (436)
• United States
6 Feb 10
The important thing is do your best friends love you? I think it's great two best friends become a couple, they already know each other, and it is the best! But you must make sure he/she love you, if he/she treat you just as friend, not lover I think you should not propose. Maybe you should dating first, people have different criterion of friends and lover, and their behavior is differnt, even you like your best friend a lot, he/she will change to another person when they in a relationship. Before you propose to your best friends, you should dating first!
@ajithlal (14568)
• India
15 Sep 12
I think it is always good to get partners who can become best friends and best friends who can become good partners.
@Hatley (164654)
• Garden Grove, California
6 Feb 10
ajithlal no indeed you will not lose a best friend you will still have that best friend only he will now be your best friend and your lover, my G od I would hate to make love with a man I did not also like, and since when have friendship and love been exclusive of each other? My husband was also my best friend and what better thing to have in a marriage,we were always there for each other, and could trust and talk to each other about things we would never discuss with anyone else.yes its very good to propose to your best friend, who know you and still loves you and likes you any way.
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@ajithlal (14568)
• India
7 Feb 10
I am happy that you married your best friend in life. It always to great to love someone who can be the best friend in our life.
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@ajithlal (14568)
• India
4 Feb 12
It is always great to have partners who understands us and can be our best friend in the future.
• Canada
28 Feb 10
Best friends can often be lovers, as long as you fell in love as you were becoming friends. My husband and I became lovers as we were becoming friends, so we knew what our ultimate goal was, but we developed a friendship along with the love we were developing. However, I have many other male friends that are purely platonic, that I would not marry, because I just don't feel that way about them. It's all about the chemistry.
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@ajithlal (14568)
• India
1 Jan 11
It is good to know that best friends can be good lovers. I think it is always the chemistry as you said rather than anything else.