Life is more happy or sadness?

@cintoy (1014)
Indonesia
February 7, 2010 10:03pm CST
I have been born for 23 years. I walk the path of life each and every seconds. I do not think life is easy. Sometimes the path is enjoyable, exciting, fun, loving, full of passions. but sometimes the path are full of obstacles, sadness, disappointment, loss of people you care about and many other things I believe in my life of 23 years, its more on the fun than on sadness. Its because i cherish the life of people around me and myself. How bout you guys?
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22 responses
@ifa225 (11098)
• Indonesia
8 Feb 10
Well I believe God gives us a balance in every path of life. The more sad i had been through, that is mean the more happy in return. Without balance, our life seem so dull. That is why God not only give us just happiness. we could go bored if we feel only that way. Just live and enjoy the moment.
@cintoy (1014)
• Indonesia
8 Feb 10
i dun think that it is a definite result for the more sad the more happy in return. It's from our way of thinking towards sad times. If we are strong enough to confront it, we can have happy in return. Live life to its fullest ^^
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@atleya (947)
• Indonesia
8 Feb 10
Hi ifa225, you are very wise. It is about balance in this life, between happiness and sadness. I am fully support your response. It is a very good response, I think. Have a nice day. Be happy! Best wishes,
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@vandana7 (69013)
• India
8 Feb 10
Hi cintoy, it is more like a roller coaster ride. :) At 50 I can afford to say so! You never know what to expect next and the highs and lows are really scary. :) Personally I think there is more of normalcy than either happiness or sadness. But we tend to focus more on sadness, letting the thoughts overlap other normal and not unhappy moments, effectively prolonging sadness. So the trick is to put sadness in its place, and if possible elongate the happy moments instead. :)
@cintoy (1014)
• Indonesia
8 Feb 10
nice tricks. have you tried this before? how do you actually do that?
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@vandana7 (69013)
• India
8 Feb 10
Yes, I keep thinking happy thoughts! It helps if you can make a habit of it. :) Trust me it is as easy as wallowing in self pity. :) And I have my share of woes as well, so I know what I am talking about. :)
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@cintoy (1014)
• Indonesia
8 Feb 10
Will try it. Thanks for the tricks i know that it's the matter of habit. when i am used to it, it will be easy.
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• Canada
8 Feb 10
I have to say my life so far, 22 years, has been more about dissapointment, loss, sadness, and abandonment. So for the majority of my life i believed life sucked. But then my eyes were opened, and someone finally made me realize how beautiful life can be. This for me was the first time i have ever truly fallen in love, and that experience alone changed my whole perspective, and even after things ended and i had to live through the heartbreak, it was so worth it. Now i have a beautiful family, that gets me through everyday, and i couldnt ask for anything more. To those who believe the world is out to get them, its really not as bad as it seems, and one day someone will come along and show you just how amazing living can be. Dying is easy, its living thats hard. Challenge yourself everyday!
@cintoy (1014)
• Indonesia
8 Feb 10
congratulations for finding your love. It feels nice rite?=D You are the proof of happiness and life challenge. btw, welcome to mylot
@Allie_xoxo (1064)
• Canada
8 Feb 10
I think life reflects attitude and becomes whatever the liver so makes it.
@cintoy (1014)
• Indonesia
8 Feb 10
you think so? what do you mean by "becomes whatever the liver so makes it?" can't really get the meaning. care to explain?
@summer77 (415)
• Philippines
9 Feb 10
More happiness, of course! You see we are all the same; we have all ups and downs, sweetness and bitterness, we fly and fall, fall and fly. lol. This is fun than I can ever think. Well, seriously, it is more happiness. I have so many mistakes, failures and loses but things are getting better knowing that there are people never let me down.
@cintoy (1014)
• Indonesia
9 Feb 10
you sure are having some good friends and families. Wish you happy always.
@cripfemme (7715)
• United States
9 Feb 10
I think overall my life is fine. No one is happy all the time. This is a fact. We all struggle and have difficulties in our lives. It's part of the human condition and what makes us get stronger.
@cintoy (1014)
• Indonesia
9 Feb 10
it's true that we can be stronger from all the struggling we made
@Bloggership (1118)
• Indonesia
9 Feb 10
Life has to be dynamic and unique i think... I believe every people wants to choose a happiness life... But every people had to accept too when the sadness event come across their life... So my point is, just enjoy our life thru a happiness and sadness...
@cintoy (1014)
• Indonesia
9 Feb 10
happiness and sadness will always be around in our life. There's no way one can only have happiness or sadness.
• United States
9 Feb 10
I agree with you, the best thing to do is have a very positive attitude towards life, life will puts you obstacles, and some sad situations, but it will also gives you a lot of happiness, but it is important that we all maintain ourselves optimistic. It is important also realized who we are, and where we come from, and never forget our culture and roots.
@cintoy (1014)
• Indonesia
9 Feb 10
positive attitude is very important. When we lose it, we will have big trouble.
@megamatt (14326)
• United States
8 Feb 10
I have found out that life is full of contrasts. There are days where we are on the top of the world with joy. Then there are the days that we get knocked back down to the ground with sorrow. Then there are days where there are many points in between. Life is mostly happy for me but there are moments. I think it is safe to say that without sadness, could be really appreciate those happy, joyful moments? Would they become a bit less special? Happiness and sadness, along with each and every little thing in between form the tapestry that is life. There are all sorts of experiences in life to say it is one thing and those experiences can and should be learned from all of the time.
@cintoy (1014)
• Indonesia
9 Feb 10
yup. you are right.
• Bulgaria
8 Feb 10
I think it's more sadness, but it worth because of the happy moments. Actualy, life is whatever you make it :)
@cintoy (1014)
• Indonesia
9 Feb 10
you are right. it's up to you either you want to make life beautiful and full of happiness or just plain and sadness.
@jeannames (305)
• Turkey
8 Feb 10
Happy to see it if you get yourself happy
@cintoy (1014)
• Indonesia
9 Feb 10
yeah. thanks. you can be happy too when you want it. just wish for happiness. happy mylotting
• United States
8 Feb 10
I think it is because of your attitude that you see life more happy than sad. Good for you. I also see life as a mix of good and bad, but I guess it depends on what we focus on which represents how we see life. For me, life is more happiness, not necessarily because I have had more happy times than sad times, but because it is never dull.
@cintoy (1014)
• Indonesia
9 Feb 10
thanks. Your life seems to be fun as well.
• Bulgaria
8 Feb 10
In my life-more sadness.There were always problems!
@cintoy (1014)
• Indonesia
9 Feb 10
Welcome to Mylot. Don't think of your life more towards sadness. Everyone will definitely has their ups and downs. when you are on the down, don't be afraid. when you are on the ups, don't be so proud. wish you had a good time here in mylot
• Philippines
8 Feb 10
life is full of different kinds of challenges and its up to us how to handle and learn from it. disappointments makes us stronger and makes us more human while happiness are rewards for the good things we did. For me. my life has been so good because of the people that i met and has been a part of my life.
@cintoy (1014)
• Indonesia
9 Feb 10
if we can wake up from the disappointment, we can lead a happier life.
• India
8 Feb 10
i think life is a combination of both happiness and sadness but in my life i feel there will be more happy moments than sad moments . there would be some time where there will be a rush of sad moments and some times there will more happy moments . i have had the taste of both happy and sad moments . i think that one happy moment can fade away a lot of sad moments
@cintoy (1014)
• Indonesia
9 Feb 10
good for you that you have more happiness than sadness.
@qamarep (4448)
• Pakistan
8 Feb 10
life is very sad here in our country. but if you want to be happy you have to foul your self for it. other wise you are going to miss it.
@cintoy (1014)
• Indonesia
8 Feb 10
Sorry to hear that. I hope it can get better soon. I believe everyone will have both good and bad times in life. Probably it is just a bad time for your country, yet there can be some happiness deep inside your heart, it can grow. spread happiness to others to let it grow
@flowerchilde (12547)
• United States
8 Feb 10
I think you've hit the nail on the head! To me, cherishing others makes us very rich and then even in trying times, there is the underlying happiness..
@cintoy (1014)
• Indonesia
8 Feb 10
thanks flowerchilde. I appreciate your compliment to me. Live life to your fullest. =D
• India
8 Feb 10
its depends upon the persons .sometime they use to face their difficulties in joyful manner,at that time life will definetely be a sucess for them.so life is more happy.
@cintoy (1014)
• Indonesia
8 Feb 10
do you think those kind of people do exist? those that face their difficulties in joy. does all successful people do that? i would want to try that so i can be successful. =D
@neha1987 (59)
• India
8 Feb 10
Life should always be filled with 2 opposite things then only its fun to live . so only god gives us both happiness and sadness. its equally balanced by him. so in my case i think its equal . life is a game play it with a smile.
@cintoy (1014)
• Indonesia
8 Feb 10
it's like yin and yang, light and dark, good and evil. Yeah i understand. Play the life with smile. hopefully we can do it. =D
• Philippines
8 Feb 10
I can say that my life is not really more on happiness or sadness, it is balance because sometimes in my journey i encounter many problems and i strives very much to pass those problems. After all the problem that i encountered there is always the happiness that shine outside of the darkness...
@cintoy (1014)
• Indonesia
8 Feb 10
Hi Jievyigot_rocket welcome to mylot. i like your phase about "There is always happiness that shine out of darkness" yup. in life there will always be happy and sad. its about how we deal with it.