Dont wish it were easier

@dorothy09 (1520)
Philippines
February 8, 2010 9:48pm CST
Did you come to a point that you think and wish that you are a rich persona so that things will be easy for you. hmmmmmmmmmm...I'd like to share my this Dont wish it were easier wish you were better Dont wish for fewer problems, wish for more skills DOnt wish for less challenges. Wish for more wisdom. Because i believe no pain no gain.. So dont wish it were easier
10 responses
• India
9 Feb 10
Yeah, that's a nice thought! we we have the necessary things and being better at those things, money would definitely take a step back. But that's not how the world is functioning now for sure!
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@dorothy09 (1520)
• Philippines
9 Feb 10
hmmmm...world now is functioning with courage and perseverance no pain no gain...if life is easy yes you will gain,my question is are you satisfied.. and are you happy..
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• India
9 Feb 10
Yup! I am satisfied and happy! Coz' more than being a rich persona, I have these wonderful ppl around me making things seem less difficult....
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• India
9 Feb 10
And yeah, My God above all who make things bearable!
@clocks123 (1229)
• United States
9 Feb 10
it won't be easier because life is difficult most times. we have good things in our lives, too, but we must accept those difficult times. you can have pain but not necessarily gain. pain can bring bitterness, depression, sadness,too.
• Philippines
10 Feb 10
You're right but for me, because of that pain, it lifts you up from the ground. I builds you more courage and hope to move on, to step higher, and to be as good as you wish for.
@dorothy09 (1520)
• Philippines
11 Feb 10
hi clocks, have you imagine in your life that all is well with you. did you not fell bored :) because I do.. life is so boring. Yes its a pleasant feeling to be happy, but you need to feel pain in order to feel satisfaction =d09:)
@dianmelydia (2272)
• Indonesia
9 Feb 10
Life is not a simple thing and we shouldn't be so weak on our life journey. I think if there's nothing is easy in this world. Everything need sacrifice to reach. This is what the life purpose that we need to be a stronger than the previous us. Chances are always come, but people usually can't grap any chance because of fear about unknown thing. Challenges are always around us as well, but people usually are too afraid to be a winner. This is just a problem with mindset. So we need to changing our old mindset so everything would be better than before. Have a nice day and happy mylotting.
@dorothy09 (1520)
• Philippines
9 Feb 10
hi dian, have faith in yourself to reach your goals in life.. thats one of the best key. Sometimes you have to believe in your power of thought to change things. its like affirmation when you believe that you can do it you can do it, and by affirming that your a winner you can ba a winner.. Always be positive in any way :) Challenges are just around us, anytime it strikes us.. We have to be ready and because in the future.. after the Pain and sacrifices there is the light side waiting. when after all the darkness..its a great feeling you have learn your lessons and you SAY YES I AM A WINNER.
• China
9 Feb 10
I totally agree with what you said above. A positive mindset could make a weak person to be stronger. In my opinion, if i could not forwardly do the something that i am not familiar with and it is definitely would became an endless problem in future. Money is the most trouble around those who lack of money rather than the rich. life is alike the same sense. Everything can become a trouble if we do not face it and translat into more terrible situation in anytime.
@Iram786 (498)
9 Feb 10
There have been times were I have wished that because I was upset or worried or whatever but to be honest I'm kind of glad for those times because they've helped make me who I am today.
@dorothy09 (1520)
• Philippines
10 Feb 10
hi there Iram I strongly agree with your opinion :) I can also say to myself that I can never be who I am now and where I am into without those difficulties that had happen to me. Those difficulties have made me strong and if life would be easier for me I am not who I am now and I dont have the Job what I have now. I am strong now because of my problems that I am encounter. I can say to myself that I am strong enough now to face any challenges in life.. No pain no Gain. Cheers!
@thebeave (31)
• United States
9 Feb 10
I don't want to be rich so I can have whatever I want. I just want to be able to be home all day with my wife and kids and never have to worry about money or working away from them. I would have several hobbies around the house that included hard work but I would be with my family. I guess that does mean I want to be rich to have whatever I want, the only thing is, all I want is time with my family.
@dorothy09 (1520)
• Philippines
10 Feb 10
hello there the beave, your a family person right. I am too wanted to spend time with my family as long as I want. unfortunately I have to work work work inorder to give first my family a comfort. well, its my destiny to help those people I love and sometimes I failed to think whats for myself. I am more happy If I did something right for my family than to my self.
@sushie93 (1359)
• France
9 Feb 10
I sometimes wih things are easier but i think that it's munch better like that, cause if everything is easy, life would be boring and we would learn anything. When something is difficult, we learn more about us and about our capacities and skills, we are able to show our "power" and we will be awarded. When things is easy, life has no sense (for me, i think like that).
@dorothy09 (1520)
• Philippines
10 Feb 10
hi there sushie, thanks for the response. I also believe learnings from experiences are more effective. because you can felt it. If life is easier you can never learn that much, so we have to wish you were better, more skills and more wisdom
@Hatley (151936)
• Garden Grove, California
9 Feb 10
hi dorothyo9 well thats fine if you have plenty of money, a job, an apartment or house, a home in other words, then it is easy to say wish for moreskills, more wisdom blah blah blah.but if you are stuck in a retirement simply because of circumstances that evicted you from an apartment with your son losing his job,you might not be so upbeat and cheerful.right now to me yes I would love to come upon a large amount of money to help my son make his own company or business or whatever so he would be working and we would have money to move back into an apartment.it takes more than great words to live here in Ca it takes money,cold hard cash.I am not mercenary , I am feeling hopeless.
@dorothy09 (1520)
• Philippines
9 Feb 10
hi hatley, who does not want money??? everyone wanted to have comfort in life.. lucky are those who were born wealthy... But no matter how life may be rich or poor, for me I am happy with my life now. I am in a middle class family, I have a great family, a lot of true friends, I am a middle earner but I am proud to say and Thankful to God for the Blessings of Friends, Family bec. I am Happy of what I am now. Cheers
• United States
9 Feb 10
Well, I could see arguments both ways...If it were easier, you'd be less stressed, have more to time to relax and to be with your family, live comfortably, etc. But then life would also be less exciting and less challenging. So I guess it would be nice to have some money to help you in your ventures, but not so much to the point where you won't have to do anything ever again.
@dorothy09 (1520)
• Philippines
9 Feb 10
hi there, well cant blame anybody we have different view and definition of Life. we have different view and perspective of what is a comfortable life. Money can make all things possible..but you cannot buy happiness with Money.
• India
9 Feb 10
You are absolutely right . There is no excitement in life without challenges and difficulties. The brain remains active and alert. I pray to God to grant me wisdom and positive energy to face those challenges in the right perspective, so the end result is always positive.
@dorothy09 (1520)
• Philippines
9 Feb 10
hi there, yes Prayers for Great Spirit is also essential in life. Above all things there is God who is the director. But when he sees someone who is very determined and inspite all the difficulties he/she has not given up..grrrrrr....God is merciful in such time Great things will happen.
@gtloquero (271)
• Philippines
10 Feb 10
Ahuh! I agree. Don't wish for easier tasks because it cannot help you out of your true color. It is better to encouter hardships because through this, it may help us to become more stronger and good as an individual. Life perhaps is not easy.