why we must do it when we all know it is totally wrong???...

Philippines
February 8, 2010 10:56pm CST
so many questions in my head after the situation i have saw last night... i don't know if i had to tell somebody else or just keep it all by myself and just for the right time. for you there my fellow mylotters what will you gonna do if you saw the wife of your husbands co-workers having an affair with their co-workers too...???
4 responses
@raynejasper (2326)
• Philippines
9 Feb 10
..hi.. well, I'm a married woman already and if that thing ever happen to me, I wouldn't be suspecting immediately unless I saw them doing intimate things.. And if they are really having an affair, I would befriend first my co-worker then try to talk to her about her family and husband.. Should I hear from her that she suspects her husband to be having an affair with another woman, then i will help her uncover the truth.. of course I won't be revealing what I saw immediately because I don't know how she will react.. Maybe, if I ever got another chance, I will try to get a picture of her husband making an affair with somebody else.. but if not given a chance, then I would have to risk telling her the truth in a manner that she will be the one to analyze..
• Philippines
9 Feb 10
hello, you know... i really wanted to talk to her in this situation but one thing that let me not to talk it about is to miss interpret it and because she is my friend already i am too sad when this really happens....
• Philippines
11 Feb 10
..ah.. so she's your friend.. and you knew her husband? then you could actually talk to her husband oersonally and tell him that you already knew that he's having an affair with somebody else.. tell him the consequence if ever his wife will know the situation.. and if he continue to do that, that's the time you make anoher move.. if you can, get some pictures of them and put it secretly in your friend's table or bag.. this way, you won't need to tell her personally what you know.. and just be there for her when she needs a shoulder.. for me, as a married wife, I would be grateful if my friend will let me know indirectly what my husband is doing..
@qamarep (4449)
• Pakistan
9 Feb 10
i wont tell because it will ruin the marriage and you know most of the people do this even the men.
• Philippines
10 Feb 10
hello, but the worst thing there is the women is the one cheating to his husband... but i know i may be the reason why there relationship will be broken, though there are those cases that might the women should know that maybe there is accidentally happen.. how come if she might get pregnant.. how would you take that....
• Philippines
9 Feb 10
hey arlene.. whoa that really is a big deal.. but then again, have you tried asking them?? maybe some of them will deny it but then at least you know their side of the story.. i think the best thing to do is to keep it all for yourself.. karma is always around the corner.. and of course god is also watching so whatever it is that they are doing, they will be punished accordingly.. dont try to be the hero juts stay neutral..
• Philippines
10 Feb 10
hi, that is what i am doing right now... but how long do i have to keep it... even to my husband i do keeping does secret... but your right the word "karma" is hardest thing we cannot escape... and GOD is always there... thanks for the great thoughts,, atleast i been lessen this feeling that i've been keeping inside me...
@neildc (17254)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
9 Feb 10
i would not talk to anybody whatever i saw. it's their affair and even if i know both partners. i will not tell anyone of them that i saw them or something. i might just get the relationship broken. let them solve their problem. that is just my opinion.