....because you think "it will get better." ... did it ??

Malaysia
February 10, 2010 12:40am CST
Everytime we fight or have a disagreement, we try moving on thinking that "it will get better" ~ does it really get better or we give up .. On certain things .. yes it did get better but on most things i just gave up fighting for it as i dont think anything can change him ... after all he has been a good lover and a good husband ... i just let him be .. And thinking out ... there are somethings that he does not like me doing and i still do it because i want to do it ... why not he .. cheers
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@valkerion (1831)
• United Kingdom
10 Feb 10
This is on the person's personality. I my self choose to NOT do things that my significant other doesn't want me to do. It's not that I am SUCH a good guy, but I think I will motivate her to do the same.. Well I think we always get better and learn at least at my age. And it necessary to give up sometimes. But I do not give up all of the times and that's because of my egoism.
• Malaysia
10 Feb 10
it totally depends on situation .. i hv a habit of shaking my legs, n it does not harm anyone but he dislikes it totally .. i cant give it up so i do it when hes not around
@valkerion (1831)
• United Kingdom
11 Feb 10
haha my girlfriend shakes her legs all the time too. Well I find it cute.
• Malaysia
11 Feb 10
ya .. to think of it, its kinda cute & sexy ya
@gabs8513 (48715)
• United Kingdom
10 Feb 10
Well I hoped for 21 Years it would and tried and tried but nope I then had to think of myself in the end as he was not prepared to give up his Social Life, Women and bullying me so I made the big Step it was hard very hard but I got through it
• Malaysia
11 Feb 10
I cant change my husbands Social Life .. i left hime to enjoy it ... because he does not womanise or even bully me .. He just enjoys the company of some friends for a drink in restaurants, which is way better then the times he spend at bar or pubs .... actually he advised me to join him but then i got bored with the 'sitting & chatting' activity
@zandi458 (27952)
• Malaysia
10 Feb 10
Two people cannot be angry at the same time. Be the first to say, 'I'm sorry.' As soon as you say it, the other side will look at you to see if you are sincere. If you are, the tension will release.
• Malaysia
10 Feb 10
oops .. should i be saying sorry even if its notmy mistake .. thats sad
@obe212003 (2302)
• Philippines
10 Feb 10
A healthy relationship with give and take' and obviously letting him be just only proves how much you know, understand and loved him. For simple things that you really want to do that he is definitely opposed to, I suggest to 'compromise' to do what you really want to do without hurting him as much. If he is on top and you feel like at the bottom or vice versa, meeting halfway could be a good thing as it would somehow balance the relationship.
• Malaysia
10 Feb 10
yes compromise is the best we can do ... so that we dont hurt each other too much, after we r not half of one but 2 indiiduals united as one