loving old woman, between Oedipus Complex and lost of mother's figure

Indonesia
February 10, 2010 2:26pm CST
falling in love can happen to anyone, anytime and anywhere. ussually a man faling love with a younger woman or woman who has the same age with the man... but what if a man falling in love with a woman that older than him? is it something wrong? what if the man didn't have a good relationship with his mother, so, he need mother's figure that represented by an older woman that he loves, or it such an Oedipus Complex? what do you think?
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@free_man (7337)
• United States
29 Mar 11
Hi Imbiahmad and welcome to my lot my friend. My husband is younger then me only about 10 years younger. But he has been with many older women he says that he likes more mature women then women his own age. I don't think there is anything wrong with that. Haven't seen you around in awhile hope your doing okay my friend.
• Indonesia
29 Mar 11
well, for me it is more comfortable when i close to mature woman, it's like somebody protect me with a warm blanket in the cold weather (doesn't mean that i'm weak). and the benefit is, she has a lot of experience about the life and so many things i can learn from her experience.. so anyway older woman is still stunning
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@free_man (7337)
• United States
29 Mar 11
Hi Imbiahmad. It isn't important how old a person is it is the love that you feel that makes a couple a couple. I am happy you still have your older lady in your life my friend. Good luck and God bless.
@cbjones (1157)
• United States
10 Feb 10
Women tend to age much better than men. It's strange. I've eyed females in their mid 40s who had this very seductive aura about them.I don't have any mommy issues, but I have no qualms about chasing after an experienced woman every now and then.