About making love before married

Indonesia
February 12, 2010 6:49am CST
Hey mylotters please give your oppinion about making love before married??,, nowaday many young man in my country doing that,, they said it's to proof if you really love him/her
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@MrKennedy (1996)
12 Feb 10
I think that it is very important to make love before "tying the knot" Making love is a way of getting truly intimate with somebody, and you can really express your feelings for them during the process. If it's not enjoyable, or you feel nothing for it, then that should be a more than obvious sign that the two of you are perhaps not marriage material
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@ellebj (784)
• Philippines
12 Feb 10
it is fine, maybe, if you are sure that this person is the right one for you.. honestly, some people do this just for pleasure, but for others, they do this because of love.. maybe, the second makes making love before marriage sensible..
• Indonesia
12 Feb 10
Wow everybody almost said the same thing,, but can i ask you,, if the one you make it is not married you??
@ellebj (784)
• Philippines
12 Feb 10
huh? what do you mean?
• United States
13 Feb 10
I am spiritual when it comes to the whole love and relationship thing. So I believe it is better to wait for the marriage. Making love before marriage is not a proof that you love your partner entirely. The one who really loves truly waits for marriage. It basically shows that he is with her for good intention and not for getting into her pants. Despite having some great relationships in the past, I decided to stay virgin. This always made all my ex's respect me and they still see me as a quality girl for any guy. Yeah, they have girlfriends now with whom they sleep, but none can take me out of their head. Also I am furture oriented. And I know one day my kids would be wondering whether to make love before marriage or not. If I proved to them their dad and I loved each other madly, but we did not do that before marriage they would believe firmly in the pureness of the love. This is going to help them stick to their values. Children learn best from parents after all.
• Indonesia
13 Feb 10
i 100% agree with you
@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
17 Mar 10
i think it`s not allowed in my country and my faith.it`s not good for women when they do it before married.i think we can get the another way to show that we love him/her
@meldred (94)
18 Feb 10
i don't agree making love before marriage because true love can wait
@emediloy (701)
• Indonesia
12 Feb 10
for me, is a big NO. maybe because i don't live in a liberal country. but according to my religion, i won't do that, and i belive its for kindness.
@jhen913 (15)
• Philippines
12 Feb 10
i think its just okay if you really love that person..being in love sometimes can't tell you what is right or wrong as long as you can prove how much you love a person and how much you are willing to do whatever it takes just to be with the one you love...
@anurag3786 (6275)
• India
12 Feb 10
I think..sometimes it right if you really want to marry with that person.. because mostly people take this as their fun.. but they don't know.. what should it affects on other persons life.. if they take this only as fun.. so i don't agree with that for love making before marriage.. thanking you and keep mylotting always..