I'm broken hearted

@maria1081 (1252)
Philippines
February 13, 2010 12:41am CST
My friend just texted me that she wanted to break up marriage with her husband. I was shocked but didnt ask her the reasons why. Since I know it would be painful for her to tell me at this moment so I'm giving her time until she's ready to share her pain with me. I was broken hearted since I never expected to hear those words from her. I saw them together and I can tell that they have a happy family. I wonder what went wrong? I'm sad to hear broken marriages, how can I face marriage in the future if my friends and people I knew are experiencing difficulties? I wish love is less complicated. I'll pray for all marriages to work out, how come they forgot that they were madly inlove once?
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12 responses
@checapricorn (16069)
• United States
13 Feb 10
that is sad, I have also a friend who is in divorce process right now, good thing is that they have no kids, it's hard still but she just can't stand her husband's attitude and the way he treated her...
@maria1081 (1252)
• Philippines
14 Feb 10
when love is too much painful to bear then i think its not love anymore. good for your friend they dont have children.
@p3ks626 (6550)
• Philippines
13 Feb 10
I am so sorry about what happend to your friend's marriage. Cases like this are really sad. You can alway be strong for her. She needs you now more than ever. If you think that there could still be a way to save their marriage then its good to do it now. You can always tell you friend to think of the reasons why she was so madly inlove with him before and is possible you also tell that to the guy. I just dont see separation as the solution to dealing with the differences that you and your partner have.
@maria1081 (1252)
• Philippines
13 Feb 10
I dont know her husband personally, I met him twice and thats it. I think that he's nice too thats why i wonder what went wrong.
@Allie_xoxo (1064)
• Canada
13 Feb 10
Hi Maria, Sometimes reason has no words and sometimes it has no place at all. Your role in this may not be to understand why, but to just put your arms around your friend during this time that she needs you to.
@maria1081 (1252)
• Philippines
13 Feb 10
Yes I will, I know she needs me now.
@ralphido (843)
• India
25 Feb 10
well. it sounds like you are still a rookie in this game of love and marriage.. pray to God to spare you the trouble..believe me, you wouldn't like it what's gonna come your way..
• Philippines
25 Feb 10
i guess your friend has valid reason why and your right, its better of not to ask her why, just wait for her to open up the reason why and all you have to do is to listen so it will help lessen the burden she have in mind and heart. as a friend what we can do best is to just support her all the way an let them think that we are just right here beside them.
• Philippines
14 Feb 10
Don't let your broken heart let youand your friend down. You have to be strong for your friend, for you are the only one she can lean on to. You have to be ready with the words of wisdom that you can share with her. Tell her that the situation she is in at this moment is just one of the many challenges of life so you have to be both strong for one another. Tell me, what would you gonna if you or she faced multiple challenges of life? What's gonna happen to both of you?
@yresh12 (3222)
• Philippines
14 Feb 10
I'm really sorry to hear about your friends marriage.. I think that both of you are going through hard times. Please pay her a visit she needs you now more than anything else... It's not easy but their are a lot of ways to make it bearable.. You should do some things together, so that you could forget about what your going through right now.....
@azdolar (28)
• Bulgaria
13 Feb 10
Very sad to hear. You should be next to her whenever she needs you now , because she must lonely and she must need friends to support her.
@sithy87 (89)
13 Feb 10
sorry for u dear friend
@donna22 (1120)
13 Feb 10
Well I think the fact that she texted you and told you maybe means that she wants you to ask her what went wrong. It may be a cary for help and a way of getting some one to tell her she is being silly etc depending on what it is that is wrong. Breaking up does not mean at all that they "forget" they were madly in love but life is life and things happen. You can remember you love someone but it does not mean that you love them njow for whatever reason.
@farazkh1 (1157)
• Pakistan
13 Feb 10
Really it hurts even when you hear the Divorce of Others.because in Glorious Quran Almighty GOD say's that in Legal deeds Divorce is the Most Disliked Act and we must try our best to not let it happen....!
• India
13 Feb 10
Hi maria, it is very difficult to get out from such kind of situations, because when anyone's heart breaks, the whole world seems meaningless, no one can give him the relaxation he/she wants, and he/she can't understand what should do how can he/she finds the peace of mind and heart, may got escape all my friends from these kind of pain or problems.