Is life as you wanted?

India
February 16, 2010 1:05am CST
Hey mylot friends, i would like to ask you an question. Is your life as you wanted to be? or it is that you have to sometimes adjust to life as it comes? Please be frank... First i'll start, well my life is not going the way i intended it to. I am having many problems in the last few months, from studies to relationships nothing is going right for me. But i have not lost hope yet and think that in the end everything will turn out to be alright. What about you guys? Please express your views.
9 responses
@kaylachan (4776)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
17 Feb 10
Your life is what you make it and not some faulse idea of how it should go. Nothing is handded to you if you want something you've got to work for it. Life is something that you need to take control of. You as a human have the ability to make choices that dictate how your life will go. yet you can often depend on the other choices made by others to send things into a tailspin. Be thankful for what you have and live your life to the fullist
• Indonesia
16 Feb 10
before i know my GOD more closely right now, my answer would be no. but today i can see from a whole different side point of view about this life. so being not worry about it, i choose to enjoy it. because now i know, life is a gift.
• India
17 Feb 10
Life is Gods best and you must enjoy it. Its good that you have an optimistic approach towards life. Hope it stays the same forever. Thanks bluevergil for your reply. I appreciate it.
@lingli_78 (12845)
• Australia
16 Feb 10
at the moment, i can say yes... in fact, most of the times i am very satisfied with my life and i am very grateful to God's blessings in my life... i experience some difficult times as well every now and then... but i think it is normal... life is full of ups and downs anyway... take care and have a nice day...
• India
17 Feb 10
Its good to hear that you are quite content with your life. Difficulties are part of life and we all have to face them someday. Thanks lingli_78 for your reply and a very good day to you too.
@MrKennedy (1994)
16 Feb 10
University is currently stopping me from living life how I want But if I study hard and do well, it WILL eventually help me live that kind of life in the long run At the moment, I'm on a tight budget, so things can often get tough. Plus, juggling between work, socialising and studying can ofte get very hard, and very awkward
• India
17 Feb 10
I understand your situation MrKennedy But thanks for you replies and hope you do really well in life.
@siliguri (4132)
• India
16 Feb 10
Yeah i'm happy the life the god given to me with such a wonderful family i got,I didn't get frustrated when i have to face any problem i usually calm myself then i try to solve my problem..
• India
16 Feb 10
Thats a good thing siliguri that you never lose your calm and you are happy with your life. Thanks for your response and have a good day.
• India
16 Feb 10
Yes.... I m happy with my life...... But there is sumthing missing in my life. i.e my partner
• India
16 Feb 10
Is great that you are happy with your life. I am sure you'll find your partner. Thanks for your reply any ways.
• United States
16 Feb 10
I know exactly how you feel red, my life hasn't been the same way either. I am a college grad, but cannot find work as a teacher. I am unemployed and my husband is working part-time (he was working full-time until May of last year the his boss cut back his hours and pay with no explaination). His boss hired two new full-time people so we know the econony is not hurting his boss. If there is anything I can please let me know so I can help you out. I will add you as a friend and give you my email address so we can chat. Best of luck to you and remember I am a friend.
• India
16 Feb 10
Thanks for your wishes, am glad to have you as a friend. I feel sad for what is going on with you, your problems are quite bigger then mine and i hope that soon you'll get a job. I wish you best of luck and hope that everything turns out well for you.
• India
16 Feb 10
Yes i'm happy with my life and each and every thing i get from my mom through she struggle a lot but she never let me down and i very proud to be her daughter whatever she gave me.
• India
16 Feb 10
Well its good to hear that you have a happy life, just the way you wanted. Hope nothing changes and you remain happy forever. My best wishes are with you.
@MoonGypsy (4613)
• United States
16 Feb 10
well, i too am going through some difficult times. i guess we have no choice but to go through it no matter how we feel about, no matter if it destroys us. there is really no way out, but through it. i am not saying to just go around grinning from ear to ear pretending that nothing is wrong. you have a right to the way you feel and you can feel anyway you want about your situation. if you feel like bad things are happening around you, you don't have to like it. you may just not have any control over it. i guess it will pass. who knows. either that, or it will get worse. at least there will be new problems and not the same old ones. hope things get better for you though, no matter. you are in my well wishes and good thoughts
• India
16 Feb 10
Well hope the best for you moongypsy. I know its hard to go through difficult times. But thats part of life and i will have to face it. Anyway thanks for your best wishes moongypsy, i surely needed them.