our relation with our parents

@humairaku (2039)
Indonesia
February 17, 2010 11:26pm CST
Hi, mylotters! In my opinion we should give big respect to our parents cos they have raised us till we can be what we are today. so far, I could keep a good relation with my parents. if one of them is sick, I'll take sometimes to take care of her/him, or maybe if they need money I'll try hard to give them what they need. cos they are so meaningful for me. the loved me, took care of me when I was a baby, sent to the best school, etc. so there is no reason for me not to respect them. how about you, mylotters? how is your relationship with your parents? and are the that meaningful for you? thanks..
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17 responses
@nophie (2338)
• Indonesia
18 Feb 10
i do agree with you humaira, i'm very respect and willing to make them happy. a few year ago, i dissapointed my parent, so i wanted to amends by make them happy, at least i can be accept at BPK. altough it is not enough to pay all what they have given to me. good luck humaira ...
@humairaku (2039)
• Indonesia
20 Feb 10
wew..you're really great nophie! I'm sure by accepting at BPK you've made yout parents very 10x proud of you. congratulation, sista! yeah, you're right, whatever we've done, how much we've paid will never ever replace their kindess to us. All we can do is doing the best for our parents..good job, nophie! I'm happy for you..:)
@nophie (2338)
• Indonesia
20 Feb 10
yeah, you right humaira, nothing can replace all of kindness of our parent. thanks humaira. goodluck for you too. happy mylotting
@humairaku (2039)
• Indonesia
20 Feb 10
thank you, nophie! have a nice weekend..:)
@gunagohan (3415)
• India
18 Feb 10
i'm having a very good relationship with my parents.. Fact, i love my parents very much...They give me a lot of pocket amount, they raised me in a good school and enrolled me in Engineering college .. They took intensive care when ever i'm sick and they never leave me alone in my home.. They still think , i'm a kid and they never leave me to go someplace alone !!
@humairaku (2039)
• Indonesia
20 Feb 10
haha..you're so lucky then, buddy! cos your parents never stops their love and attention. but, you're a man, right? is it bothering when your parents still give such a treatment like that till today? :))
@gunagohan (3415)
• India
20 Feb 10
no, it doesn't bother me much.. But it has some effects on on some things which i can't share with my parents
@careguarden (5674)
• Philippines
18 Feb 10
Of course I do respect and love my parents especially nowadays that they're getting old and comes a time when I may not see them anymore and they may not experienced my love and appreciation. I owe my life to them and you know what, right now I learned how difficult it is to raise a child. So it's always best that we unceasingly shower them with love and give whatever that will makes them happy, they deserve it.
• Philippines
18 Feb 10
i agree on you careguarden and your right that we should give our parents a lot of love and affection nowadays that they are getting older each day. we should repay them for raising us up the best way they can and for sacrificing everything for our sake. we should be grateful for having them as our parents because no one can ever replace them in our hearts.
@humairaku (2039)
• Indonesia
20 Feb 10
hi both of you! I'm really relieve when knowing that almost people here agree that they always do respect and love their parents very much. cos frankly I have a little anxiety that it's difficult to find children who really respect and love their own parents. if it's really happened how sad we are knowing this. so it is very relieving when knowing that there are still a lot of children outside there who still care of their parents..good deed, dude..^^
@besthope44 (12145)
• India
12 Aug 10
Well true, relationships between me and my parents are more like a good friend and i cherish it!
@humairaku (2039)
• Indonesia
19 Sep 11
that's great, Besthope! nobody in the world deserves get more respect but our parents. mother for delivering us, and father who is always strong to support his family. Oh, talking about parents makes me really really miss them so much. I hope God always gives His blessings to them...Amen..
@ralphido (843)
• India
22 Feb 10
well.. lately, i have come to realize that children can never love their parents as much as their parents love them.. maybe when I was younger, I think, I loved them very much... But as I get older, I have started thinking less and less about them, my love for them just seem to worn out, but I do care about them.. but i cannot think of doing all the things they have done for me... maybe, because I live in my own little perfect world..
@humairaku (2039)
• Indonesia
23 Feb 10
I think I have similar opinion with yours.I've had my own family today with husband and a daughter. I live away from my parents so I can't take care of them like I haven't my own family. Now I raise my own child. I think that's the cycle should be. we have been raised by our parents then we raise our children. our parents' love is priceless and they never wanna be paid back. though I have my own family, I do love them. nothing can change that..
@Hubfee (665)
• Thailand
22 Feb 10
well, parents are the ones who gave us a chance to have the meaning of the life.
@humairaku (2039)
• Indonesia
22 Feb 10
hi, hubfee..And they are really meaningful. what makes life could be so meaningful is because we have good parents, right?
@kyvin147 (78)
19 Feb 10
for me it depends on the situation.... coz my father don't treat me well he just take me for granted and he always say that i am not his son thats why i don't respect him.. in terms of my mother she treat me nicely she loves me, take good care of me, and she is the only one who understand...thats why i treasure her and i am so very thankful to God to have a mother like her....
@humairaku (2039)
• Indonesia
20 Feb 10
it's so sorry knowing your father didn't treat you bad. I ever witnessed same case like you had. father didn't have good relation with their own son. and I don't know why. maybe because they have same attitude or ambition so whatever father or son did was never suitable with their intention. is it true, buddy?
@libramie (562)
• Philippines
19 Feb 10
I love my parents with all my heart and we have a good relation and this must be.We can't pay on what our parents do unto us since birth.What we can do is to loved, cared and respect them. Give them happiness through sharing of what success we have in life.
• United States
18 Feb 10
I love my mother and would do anything for her. she is a beautiful lady who did a wonderful job raising 6 children. When ever she needs money I try to help. If she is ever to get sick I know I will be right there taking care of her.
@humairaku (2039)
• Indonesia
20 Feb 10
you're a grat child for your parents, buddy. I think, there isn't another else our parents wish except being loved by their children like you did. I'm sure they will be very happy and proud of you. bravo, friend!
@kibagus (92)
• Indonesia
18 Feb 10
proverb says "heaven under mothers feet"
@humairaku (2039)
• Indonesia
20 Feb 10
nice! I like that proverb and of course, believe it with my faith. that's why there's no reason not to respect our parents, especially our mother.
18 Feb 10
I adored my late Father, respected and admired him very much. Unfortunately I canot say the same of my Mother. She made my life hell since early childhood and although I love her as my Mother, I cannot respect her.
@humairaku (2039)
• Indonesia
20 Feb 10
it's so sad knowing this, buddy. i don't really understand why some parents couldn't raise their children well. especially for a mother. she's delivered a baby, feeling hurts very much, but then she didn't take care of him/her well..for me it really doesn't make a sense..:(
@illfavors (592)
• United States
18 Feb 10
I have a great relationship with my folks. I wish I could see them more often. We talk through email and on the phone all the time and they are always there for us when we need them. I don't know what I would do without them.
@humairaku (2039)
• Indonesia
20 Feb 10
ya, parents are my everything. today I also live away from my parents. but I try to meet them as often as I can. what about you, why you only talk via e-mail and telephone to your parents? are you same with me, stay away from your parents? if yes, how often do you meet them? thanks..
• Philippines
18 Feb 10
my relationship with my parents right now is good. but before when i was kinda teenagers, i admit it that i was a stubborn. i always think of myself without even giving considerations to my parents feelings. i used to go out with some friends late at night while my parents are waiting up in our house wondering where am i. i feel so sorry for that and i really regret it because i had realized that i was really wrong. i told them i'm sorry for being a stubborn and promised to be a good girl. because i know for a fact that one day, we will also experience the joy of being a parent and i know that it is not easy to become a parent. that is why im so proud of my parents because they had thought me well about life and they guided me and even correct my bad doings for me to become a better person.
@humairaku (2039)
• Indonesia
20 Feb 10
hi, ichigojuni! it's good for you for your turning attitude. cos our parents will never stop worrying when there is something to their children or when their children do something bad. frankly, I ever did something, too and I'm sure it really made my parents hurt. so, from now on, I'll try harder to make them happy, moreover they're getting older now, so they need attention and love more from their children than before. let's do the best thing for our parents! cos they really deserve to get that..:)
@MrKennedy (1994)
18 Feb 10
I respect my parents a lot, and am eternally grateful for them because I understand that if it wasn't for their efforts and hard work, I would not be here today Plus, they helped raise me and support me through the trials and tribulations of life. Sure, we have the odd argument here and there, but overall, I love and respect my parents very much, and share a strong relationship with them
@humairaku (2039)
• Indonesia
20 Feb 10
I agree with you 100%, mr..:)) I'm a woman myself and I ever delivered a baby, so I can feel how hurt my mother was when she was delivering me. that's why I take a big respect to my parents especially for my mother..
@ridwan08 (1184)
• Indonesia
18 Feb 10
my relationship with my parent verry well,because I love both.and your opinion should be give big respect to our parent is a nice word.I agree with your opinion,without parent we're nothing.thanks to my parents.I love you
@humairaku (2039)
• Indonesia
18 Feb 10
so, let's try harder to make them happy so they won't feel lonely in this world though their children have been far away from them..
• Australia
18 Feb 10
Hi there:) Well, i agree with you there... we should respect our parents who have raised us up though it sort of depends on the situation. Some parents seem to neglect their children and abuse them. Personally for me, i'm really family-orientated and i would think that families should come first. I owe a lot to my mother and i respect parents who treat their children well :)
@humairaku (2039)
• Indonesia
18 Feb 10
ya, in one side some parents neglect and abuse their own children but in other side there are some children who don't take any respect to their own parents. so they don't want to take care of them when they are getting older. even they tend to neglect them..what a sad story. don't they know that parents did big sacrifice to raise their children? :(
• India
18 Feb 10
Yes i do respect my parents and i also feel bad when my parents get sick so i don't want to lose him at any cost.
@humairaku (2039)
• Indonesia
18 Feb 10
good for you. and I have a plan I will take care of them when they are getting older till they die. maybe God will write this as a good deed of me..hehehe..