Does Child Matters?

I have a friend who wants a child but could not because of health issues. She and her husband are trying so hard to solve the problem and taking medication. They are married for two years already, and a child is very important for them. Whatever is God's plan for them, I hope someday they will have a child as they are very good people. They said they will turn to the powers of science as a last resort. for the meantime, they are still happy because they have good friends and a pet dog.

I don't think its a big deal for couple not to have child after marriage, maybe some couples does but for me in my point of view .It will not be a rush conceiving a baby, having a baby takes a lot of attention and it has to be ready to take the responsibility being a parents. In some couple with no child still can be called a family ..Family is not just having a baby its a bind of two who tend to build a bigger family unfortunately they wasn't blessed with it.. Anyway its common nowadays adopting child and treated as their own.And i think some consequences may possible to arise if the they don't open up something with each other and i think if the expectations of each party is not possible to happen..In my point of view it will be better to talk honestly with each other what they suppose to do with this kind of situation and they need to accept wholeheartedly what their half deficiency..Love is acceptance of your partner as whole ..So no matter what she/he cannot able to do,accept all without exemptions. Happy Lotting and God bless!

if you want to be a family with someone there is no matter if you have otr don`t have a child .i have a child ,but i and my boyfriend are not married.the marriage is not a reason we to be a family,my brother in law and his wife are married for three years but they haven`t a child and they are happy that way of living and they doesn`t think that they are inadequate of that. my opinion is that every way to live with someone should make you happy

I think it depends, for some couples their love is enough, and other couples have the necessity of having a child. And other people just really doesn't want to have a child. Having a child shouldn't be a must in a marriage. Also a marriage that doesn't have children is also considerate a family, because those two people decided to join their life together as a couple.

A child is indeed a great gift given to a couple for it can make the family bond closer than ever. A child has the special way to brighten up a home and to make it even more stronger especially in trying times.It is the child who inspires the parents to work on in pursuing a better home and a better future. For me, the child matters.But also before having them around, it also mater much to prepare for their existence. It doesn't only mean having them is enough.Preparing for them is all the more important because a child entails a great responsibility too. I do love to have one myself , but i could say not yet for now .I still have to do something more to better care for him or her in the future.

i don't think it matters much. but most often that not, a child becomes a couple's source of togetherness. it completes the picture. for most, yes. but i don't think the inability to produce an offspring should be hindrance to a lifetime of commitment.

I know some couples that don't actually want to have children. One is a friend of mine and he lives with his girlfriend. Neither of them wants to have any children in the future. I think of them as a couple than as a family. Two of my female cousins tried to get pregnant but couldn't do so. One tried to have a test tube baby but it didn't work. Neither of them decided to adopt a child. In my first year of teaching I knew a few children that had been adopted. One lady adopted two boys and a girl. Another lady adopted a little girl. My mom's friend tried to get pregnant in the 1960s but couldn't. She and her husband adopted a baby girl and a year later a baby boy. A man and a lady = a couple A lady and a baby = a family A lady, a man and two children = a family

I know of 3 personally that don't have children and its because neither of them wants to be parents. For those that do but aren't well that depends on a lot. There are a lot of people not willing to adopt because they want to ensure that someone of their own blood will carry on the family name and for those people if a child is the most important thing to them they will leave and find someone who is able to give that to them.

hai the speedy world never think about this now a days people particularly professonals prefer living together life style they lost to think the value of the family system if its continue people one day live without family system that enable them to do lot of mischiefs according to me family with children are perfect life to live.

Yes child does matter in our life if i get married then i will have my own child and instead of that i will adopt child.