Greatest Love Problem... (I guess so...)

@skbrence (476)
Philippines
February 18, 2010 11:37pm CST
Which one would you choose? The person you love or the person who loves you? This was the greatest love problem for me since it is really hard to choose... Well, if you have some experiences about such thing, kindly share them. I am interested with what's your decision and why... xD
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@mensab (4207)
• Philippines
19 Feb 10
i think there can be no need to choose between the two. whether i love the person or she loves me, i can have both so that there is no need to choose. there are love stories that both persons love each other in a relationship. i hate to be in the situation where i have to choose like that. if ever i will be, then i will make efforts to make her love me too. so that love will be reciprocal.
@skbrence (476)
• Philippines
19 Feb 10
Hi there mensab... So if you are caught between this kind of situation, you would choose the person you love right? And you also said that you would do actions and efforts to make that person love you too... What actions or efforts would you do in example? By the way, thanks for your response and thanks also for dropping by.
@bing28 (3798)
• Philippines
19 Feb 10
According to the olds, you choose the one who loves you much rather than the one you love as it would end up to a successful relationship. As, because when he/she loves you, he will understand and can bear with you. He would always be willing to serve and provide you with everything you need. He will do everything to please you and because of this you'll easily develop your love for him.
@skbrence (476)
• Philippines
19 Feb 10
Hi there bing28... Somehow right... Other people also choose the one who loves them because when time pass by, he or she would also learn how to love that person who loves him or her... Well, definitely, if you really love the other person you love, this decision would be a hard one to decide... By the way, thanks for your response and thanks also for dropping by.
@ladym33 (11008)
• United States
26 Feb 10
That's a hard choice. It would be logical to say the one that loves me, because they would be true to me and care for me always. However, if I do do not love that person I don't think in the long run that it would work out. The heart wants what the heart wants and that is not always the best or nicest person unfortunately. I had a fantastic boyfriend once who cherished me, and I tried really hard to love him but I just couldn't. I say the only way to go is to love someone who loves you just as much. If you accomplish that in life you will have accomplished one of the life's best rewards.
• United States
25 Feb 10
I would choose the one I love. This love may be unrequited but it does not matter much anymore as long as I can contribute to that person's happiness. It may seem weird, but yeah, this is how I love.