What are you searching for in a relationship?

Philippines
February 19, 2010 8:50am CST
Hi mylotters, All of us will come to the time that we will have a relationship with someone. So what are you searching for in a relationship? Me, I just want to have a normal and happy relationship with someone I love. I just want to be my partner be honest, loyal and have trust in me.
12 responses
• Philippines
19 Apr 10
I started out late in this department (first boyfriend at 22!) since I'm so picky when it comes to partners. I always look for that gut-feeling I get when I decide that someone is worth being in a long-term relationship with me. I guess if I have to specify it, that guy must have something in him to make me want to stay with him for years to come. That's always the first thing on my mind when I meet someone I'm attracted to.
• Philippines
4 Mar 10
Already got her. She trust me, loyal, we respect one another, understanding. That is all I want to her that she always understands me.
• Philippines
26 Feb 10
I already have him. We love one another, we trust, understand,respect and we are loyal to one another.
• Philippines
20 Feb 10
I am searching for true love inside a relationship. I hope my future partner will understand my priority in life and will wait for me until I am ready to tie the knot. My family is my priority, I want to give them the best of life that is why i am working hard and I do not think of my personal life anymore, because they are want I value most of the time. I want to give them all the luxury they want. I want to leave them without problems financially. I want to give them all, and after that, that is only the right time i will think about myself. If a future partner will able to wait for me after doing all that, I will truly accept his engagement. Is there a man with a wide understanding, I so want to meet him.
@mods196621 (3631)
• Philippines
19 Feb 10
I searched for the honesty but sometime we failed on that matter. Now the most important to me is the love that we had. Compatibility also played one of the most important one into a relationship. Love and compatibility.
@Mike4me (567)
• Philippines
19 Feb 10
I am currently in a great relationship with a very great and lovable man and I can say that our relationship is very great. We trust, understand, care and love each other so much and i think the key to a great relationship is honesty and trust and of course love for each other. I couldn't ask for more. :)
• Philippines
19 Feb 10
what im looking for a relationship is of course number one is love as love will one of the ingredients that makes your relationship work. but then, you also have to think of other things. like if you enter into relationship you must also think the possibility that the person will become your lifetime partner, unless your just playing around with them. so you have to think if the guy is stable enough and good enough. if both are capable to understand and accept each other inspite of the problem around them which we cant be avoided in every relationship like jealousy and etc. if the guy is not a narrow minded coz its one of the problem in the future.
• United States
19 Feb 10
I am not searching for anything in my relationsip. I find it can cause me more harm tahn good. I just want tim and I to live in harmony. There is no such thing as normal to me so that would not be it. I want us not to fight over little things. I want us to be able to talk things out. Which isa how we do things now. I want trust and reliability from both of us. I don't mind him going out or anything. He always lets me know where he is. I just don't like to worry about things. I want a ring somewhere in my future but,I am not getting married.
@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
19 Feb 10
Honesty, loyalty, trust, respect and love. And the most important a very big sense of HUMOR. TATA.
@lelin1123 (15645)
• Puerto Rico
19 Feb 10
I have all that in a man already so I no longer have to search. The only problem is he is in Puerto Rico and I'm in New Mexico. I hope to join him before Thanksgiving this year. It all depends on me being able to sale my house. I wish for you the best relationship forever.
@jaiho2009 (39019)
• Philippines
19 Feb 10
hello health, Everyone wants to have a happy and healthy relationship. Like a fairy tale come true. In relationship...honesty,trust and respect comes with responsibility and compatibility in some aspects i think will make a good relationship to lasts a lifetime. It's hard to tell what really could be the best ingredient/s to have a happy and endless relationship. I think,God should be the center of it all. Be guided and blessed by the Lord...
@zandi458 (27952)
• Malaysia
19 Feb 10
For a relationship to survive there must be compatibility aside from the importance of love. This is all I can say as it is past my time but only share my experiences.