What's the use of loving someone when he can't be with you?

February 22, 2010 9:47pm CST
Isn't it great that you've finally found the right one for you? But the thing is, he can't spend his whole life with you. Sad isn't it? Yet you're still hoping that one day he will be yours forever...
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@EARLZHAN (938)
• Philippines
23 Feb 10
Hi there friend.. yes it is really hard to meet someone whom you want to spend your life with but can't be with you. Well in that case ask your self, Do you really have to stay in that situation. If you really wan to be with the one you love then take the first step to enter his life and be a par of it. If the situation is really complicated and there are lots of consequences that you have to face just to get him then think again. Are you ready to take and fight the odds? If you can't give up and accept your loss. That's life friend, we can think whaterver we want to have but we can't get all the things that we wan't to have.
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• Philippines
23 Feb 10
What do you mean by "can't be with you..." Can't be with you because you are miles apart? Or he is married to someone else? Or in a relationship with someone else? Or thinks of you as just a friend?
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• Philippines
23 Feb 10
can you elaborate why he can't spend his whole life with you? if he is married, then don't think twice, move one girl. if not, why? tell me.
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@eLsMarie (4135)
• Philippines
3 Mar 10
i love your discussion but why on Earth can't he be with you? if it's because he loves somebody else or if he already has a full commitment with somebody else then stop longing for that kind of guy. instead, find somebody who's much deserving of your worth. uhmmm... love wouldn't be complicated if people won't complicate it. that's how easy life is...
@rajaiv0810 (1013)
• Philippines
26 Feb 10
It seems like the man is married, isn't he? He could be married or a priest hehe. If in case he is in this state, then maybe the best thing for you to is move on and accept the fact that he can't be yours. It may be painful but reality really do bites. You'd rather do something about it than to wait forever and in vain. Besides, if he is married he may not be the right one for you.
@freeboy90 (459)
• Italy
26 Feb 10
He cna't spend his whole life with you, but does he want to be with you at all? The questions is not 100% clear, do you mean if you fall in love for someone that will never love you or that you two will have a very complicated relatioship? if it is the first you mean that I will say there is not use in loving somebody that can love you back, so look somewhere else, there's no use to suffer in that case to get nothing again and again. In the second one I think I wouldn't care, if I love someone even if it's going to be a difficoult relation for different reasons but the love is there.
• India
23 Feb 10
Hello friend!! If your love is true then you will get him one day for sure and it is only if God has decided him be for you on this planet. If you think that it is because of long distance that you both can't be together then this distance can't be for longer at maximum months or year what else...I am also in a long distance relation and we are planning to marry each other and we are determined for it so we will get each other and we are sure that we are made for each other. If problem is that he is already married or in some other relation then dear you had to think before getting into his life that can later hurt you making him your right man. If it is only one sided love and he has not got any feelings for you then best thing for you will be learn to live your life and remember one thing... Love the person who loves you... who care for you... instead of those to whom you love and they don't care for you... Good Luck!!! Have a nice time!!
• Philippines
23 Feb 10
That is really sad. For whatever reason, i hope you are doing the right thing. If he is married, get out and find some one who can claim your own. If he lives so far away from you, like in another country, yet he is single or commited to you only, you should work hard to build trust and be patient till he can finally be there by your side forever.
• Philippines
23 Feb 10
Yes it is sad, especially when you totally and completely feel in love with the guy. But sometimes, the person that we think we like or love may not be the right person or vice versa. If the right person that we found can't spend his whole life with us, probably there might be a very good reason. We may feel sad about it but everything comes with a reason. The reason may be uncomprehensible but it may also serve as a good reason with a purpose. In time, we may eventually find the right person and at the same time spend a wonderful life time with him.
@anurag3786 (6275)
• India
23 Feb 10
I think it is very very difficult to forget when you loved someone.. because you connected with her/him deeply.. but question is that the other person may like you or not.. but i think.. if i loved someone.. then i always still waiting for her.. in my whole life.. and if she loves me also then one day she may also comes near to me.. and accept my love.. that's true love.. have a nice day and keep mylotting always..