Is it better to wait or to chase?

United States
February 23, 2010 3:06am CST
Throught my life I have been chasing girls, trying to find the right one. And it's about 50/50 that it success but I always end up getting Hirt in the long run. I've heard people say you should wait and the right person will come. But I just can't get around that. If I wait how will they know I even exsist when there's millions of other people looking too and my chance just might slip away. Relationships are one of the hardest things to understand there's so much effort that goes into it keerping your partner intrested. Do you think that we should chase after the ones we want or wait for mr/ms right to come along?
4 responses
@Genericbe (1376)
• Philippines
23 Feb 10
It is better to wait for the right time and place to be in-love again. Chasing do not give any assurance in looking for the right person to come into your life. This is because you are aware of the reasons why you are doing such thing. But, if you just patiently wait in no conditions or strategies, just go out and get to meet other people or peers, then the chances are greater to achieve. I do believe that looking for the right person to Love comes unexpectedly. There are many possibilities as long we permit it to happen for real but in many forms it can be described. Sometimes, the person we are looking for are just around us, it is just that we are focused to other things that we cannot recognize the reality that the someone we are looking for are just close to us or even maybe in front of us. So, it is better to wait for that person to come and touch your life. For this, will never go wrong and do happen for real without any conditions.
• United States
23 Feb 10
This makes since in a way... But also doesn't. How do you know if you wait love is gonna come? Because how would they you know you even exist if you do not chase after them?
• Philippines
26 Feb 10
chasing would make you look like you are so desperate to have one. it could happen that you might end up having the wrong choice. there's always someone for somebody.
• Philippines
23 Feb 10
i think it is better for us to wait for the right one. in chasing, we might chase the wrong people who might only hurt us in the end. in waiting for the right one, we are preserving ourselves to be the best person that the right one can have when he/she comes along.
• Philippines
23 Feb 10
it depends to you. theres nothing to lose if you try right? so if you think that you like the girl then go ahead show them your love. if they dont appreciate it then its alright at least you try. sooner or later someone will be right enough for you.