What does your partner do when you cry about something?

@p3ks626 (6552)
Philippines
February 23, 2010 4:05am CST
Crying is a part of a woman's personality and that kind of personality seem like not being understood by men. I have a friend who told me that one of men's weaknesses are the tears rolling down a girl's face. In my case, I dont think it is true. Does your partner ever get annoyed when you cry? What does he usually do?
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@Mike4me (567)
• Philippines
25 Feb 10
When i cry normally my partner would always try to cheer me up, if its because of him, he would tell me stuff that will surely make me feel better. My partner actually likes it when he sees me cry, not that he's happy when i cry, but specially when the reason is about our relationship, like I'll be missing him, i don't want us to fight, etc because he feels that I have a lot of love for him so he likes it to see me cry in some way. tears shows true feelings.
@p3ks626 (6552)
• Philippines
26 Feb 10
He is a good man. I wish I also have that. I dont blame my husband anyway, I think I also need to do a lot of improvements in my part for us to be able to understand and love each other more. I also have to reflect on myself.
@youless (87141)
• Guangzhou, China
24 Feb 10
When I cry because of a touching movie, my husband will find it amused and he will laugh at me:) Perhaps I am emotional and therefore he can not understand why I will cry just because of the movie. I love China
@p3ks626 (6552)
• Philippines
26 Feb 10
haha! I think he really doesnt understand. My husband sometimes cry when he sees movies that touches him. I think in that sense we will understand why we are crying.
• United States
24 Feb 10
My boyfriend hates when i cry and always says he hates when i do it becasue he doesn't want to be with a person that is going to be like that. I usually cry because im away from him and won't see him. I cried a couple weeks ago because one day i didn't get to see him and it was hard then becasue i started working again and we were with each other everyday for almsot a year and it was hard not seeing him that day and it just wasn't normal. I cry when he gets mad and i know he is mad becasue he repeats himself and i get mad about that and sometimes cry as well, he hates it when i cry and sometimes i just don't even tell him because he might just say he doesn't want to be with me anymore
@p3ks626 (6552)
• Philippines
24 Feb 10
Does you boyfriend ever give you some reasons to cry? My partner tell me the same things when I cry but I just dont understand why they have to be angry when in fact they are the reasons why we are crying. Wouldn't it be better if they would just console us than say things like they dont wanna be with us?
• Indonesia
23 Feb 10
hahahah not all men can melted from women tears, maybe a few man turn into it but some man will call crying girl is a weakling, so different type has different view, but i always care when a girl cry, if a man cry, whatever thanks for a good discussion :) sincerely reborn is hard
@p3ks626 (6552)
• Philippines
24 Feb 10
I admit I am a weakling and since I am I expect strength from other sources specifically from my partner but I dont have it at all.
@cloud31 (5811)
23 Feb 10
He will always comfort me when tears rolling down my cheeks \ i don't know if other man can stay when their partner is tearing infront of them.Well, he always telling me to calm down myself and sure his very sorry if hes the cause of it or if anybody else it seems that he want to kill the one who makes me cry.Lol.He always told me that" He himself can't afford to hurt me,if someone intend to hurt me sure he will loss control.LOl..very sweet hahaha..How do you find that? Lol.
@p3ks626 (6552)
• Philippines
24 Feb 10
How I wish I will also get comforted. Sometimes when we women cry, all we need are just sweet words to come us down but I never got that. Your lucky to have a man like him.
• Philippines
23 Feb 10
My partner gets annoyed sometimes but he usually gets nervous and kinda rattled when he sees the tears coming.He always say that crying denotes weakness but i do know that he is worried about me and angry with that person who made me cry.
@p3ks626 (6552)
• Philippines
24 Feb 10
I think he is a very good man. I just hope that my man would also show the same care. I know I'm weak but I dont seem to know where to find the strength if he is angry at me.
24 Apr 10
mostly when i cry, my guy just looks at me without saying a word. he does not console me. he gets so cold and sometimes he even looks away as if his mind is very far. this hurts very much.one day he told me to stop crying and asked me if that is how i plan to be crying in the future. nowadays, am learning to cry alone in my room, or if he is around, i go cry somewhere alone and pretend i have gone to buy a snack or take a walk. other times i cry in the ladies and pretend i had gone to powder my nose.
• Philippines
26 Feb 10
My boyfriend says he hates to see me cry. And when I do, he wipes my tears away and tell me soothing and comforting words to stop me from crying. then he hugs me. He's not comfortable with crying, and I could see he would be a little rattled when I'm about to cry. It also hurts him to see me hurting over something. He would get annoyed if I cry over some trivial matter or something so silly, but if I shed tears because I'm unhappy or hurting, he would be my handkerchief who wipes away my tears. :)
@simonelee (2721)
• China
26 Feb 10
Hi, p3ks626. I don't know if that statement is true. Through my personal experience/encountered guys don't usually mean what they say. They are good in pretensions even a lady cry and beg they still want to let go and escape from that pain. My friends cried so many times but our guy friends make fun of it and often ignore what they see. Maybe because they don't want to show that they are weak when it comes to that? afraid to show their sympathy? I think lets wait for a guy to answer this issue. Anyway, my partner is always there to comfort me every time I'm down. My partner always there to present both side in able for me to see and understand what causes the pain and somehow show me the positive side of that event. My partner is a she that's why she understand what I've been through.