how if your friend backstab you ?
By rebornishard
@rebornishard (186)
Indonesia
February 23, 2010 2:57pm CST
hmmm, i will write one condition : you will have a job to make a software for accounting company and your friend know that, then your friend come to that company to offer a lower price, and that company agree to your friend's offer, then than company cancel to make a contract with you and starting a contract with your friend, how do you feel and what will you do ?
thanks for respond :)
sincerely reborn is hard
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8 responses
@anc457 (186)
• Thailand
24 Feb 10
that's what they call business. In the business world today, friendship is out of the sight. well sorry for you, yur friend made a better deal. better luck next time. it's true that we feel bad about it but that's what we call life. if that happens, then he's not your real friend. maybe you consider him your friend but he doesnt.
@rebornishard (186)
• Indonesia
24 Feb 10
yes business world is too scary, it is hard to say, but business is business , friend is friend, they are different world at all
thanks to respond :)
sincerely reborn is hard
@rebornishard (186)
• Indonesia
25 Feb 10
hahaha yes money is trouble at all , and trouble is a friend , just like lenka song
i miss that song i will hear it before getting sleep :)
thanks to respond :)
sincerely reborn is hard
@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
23 Feb 10
I would not consider them a friend. Business is business, but if they are going to back stab me like that then I would not want to be their friend anymore. I would not go to a company and offer something a cheaper price, especially if my friend had already went to that company. If I did not know then I would be genuinely sorry but how would you not know what company your friend went to?
I would not tell the person anymore of my business ventures.
@rebornishard (186)
• Indonesia
23 Feb 10
is that your avatar? that small one, at first i think that was a text, but it was an image at all. nice respond :) , so making a new contract with other company and call that people ex-friend and not tell the others anymore about your business
thanks to respond :)
sincerely reborn is hard
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@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
24 Feb 10
My avatar is text, well it's kind of bolded with a heart... but it says "The Mrs." lol... as I just recently got married.
Yes, I would not want to have anything to do with the friend, and would call them "ex friend" thanks so much for the BR!
@rebornishard (186)
• Indonesia
24 Feb 10
that is explaining your avatar at all :)
hahahaha yes keep calling them ex friend and maybe it is better to lost contact with them
you are welcome , thanks for respon :)
sincerely reborn is hard
@6precious102 (4043)
• United States
25 Feb 10
I would contact my "friend" to make sure that he/she knows that I know what was done. Afterward, I wouldn't reveal anything else to this so-called friend.
@rebornishard (186)
• Indonesia
25 Feb 10
ehmm you mean tell him/her directly, that so harsment and so open , why not waiting he contact you , then say it directly, why you not contact him/her :)
thanks for respond :)
sincerely reborn is hard
@coffeegurl (1467)
• United States
24 Feb 10
that blows reborn. I would tell that friend to take a hike. Sounds like they aren't supporting you or your dream and wish at all. Lately, my best friend has stopped calling me. I like to hear from her, but I can't afford to visit her as she lives in another state. She moved away and could have given me her car, which she donated to charity for a tax write off. She offered to sell it to me, but I was broke and she knew that. No one has ever given me a vehicle to drive. I read that in places like Sweden, the gov't will give you a car if it means you will get a job and contribute to the economy
@rebornishard (186)
• Indonesia
24 Feb 10
maybe i will do the same, but in my country it is best to stay, because our id is limited if we use onboard :(
so in sweden we can get a good wages, hmmm i will rethink to move there maybe after getting enough saving :)
thanks to respond :)
sincerely reborn is hard
@rebornishard (186)
• Indonesia
24 Feb 10
yes, ask him to one by one
but if we lose in emotional , we lose everything in that time :(
keep calm, and more aware next time :)
thanks to respond :)
sincerely reborn is hard
@rebornishard (186)
• Indonesia
24 Feb 10
yes , true friend did not backstab you, this one is a fake one,
find a new one to replace him :)
thanks to respond :)
sincerely reborn is hard
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
24 Feb 10
I think it is very bad if a friend does that to another friend. When it comes to business deal and where money is involved, some people just turn ugly and care less about friendship. Money to them is bigger and more important than friendship. It is indeed a sad state of affair. In such cases, I will detach from that friend.
@rebornishard (186)
• Indonesia
24 Feb 10
yes , money make someone change at all, they will only think , in their life they just need money money and money at all :(
that was bad :(
thanks to respond :)
sincerely reborn is hard
@rebornishard (186)
• Indonesia
23 Feb 10
hahahaha so it is better to call them ex-friend, yes friend is help each other, not stab each other :)
thanks to respond :D
sincerely reborn is hard
