a killer? or a lesson?

Philippines
February 25, 2010 3:45am CST
if your depressed do you think its the end of the world? that you cant do anything? are you asking yourself, why like this, why like that?? its painful and very hurting. I've been depressed before, coz of my loved one, hurting me so bad, cry me all day and night, cant think of anything only pains, what i got, eye bags,ugly face, just think of it, if your going to take your problems seriously these might happen to you, some kill their selves because they are thinking, we cant do anything, and its hard to say we can do something about it. I conquer all those pains and heartaches. its killing me before but now brought me into a lesson, lesson that makes my life easy and happy, makes me stronger than before, help myself to think more, than to do nothing. Be inspired of what you had before, happy or pains. Because of what happen to you should always an answer and that answer will make proud of you. share something that inspired you most, proved to yourself that depression is a lesson and should not be a killer of your entire life.
3 responses
@erielle (1281)
• United States
1 Mar 10
I have been battling depression on and off for 12 years now. It's hard. When you are used to a certain mindset, it's hard to change your way of thinking. I usually just find things to do to keep me going. It feels like it is a constant battle to just keep moving. Just keep moving... I keep promising myself that there is a point to all of this... just keep moving. I've hurt people along the way, but mainly myself. Depression and Anxiety have taken over my life. I can't make friends anymore, I never see my family. There has to be a cure. I'm going to find one one day. That is my goal in life, to help those around me break from this dark room that no one understands. Things like "It's all in your mind" is not true. It is a serious problem. Some may use it as a crutch but for the most part.. we all want to get better more than anything.
• Philippines
13 Mar 10
I hope you'll not feel bad of what I'll tell you now. Have you tried to love yourself? Yes if you love yourself, you'll do things and think of things that will make yourself happy. Stay focus on for example, your talents and skills that will make you happy. Do not indulge too much with self pity. If somebody's hurting you and make you feel like you're a great loser, just shove it off. Nobody's perfect. Not even the ministers, the priest, etc. I've been through lot of trials and defeat but instead of sulking I usually divert my frustrations to certain hobbies that would make me feel great. Try talking to your God! You'll feel free, He is always listening.
@besthope44 (12145)
• India
7 Oct 10
I use to manage depression, listening musiq, playing violen and i like chocolates, and i feel i get refreshed after having my chocolates. And best remedy is Meditation, try breathing exercise, it will help you balance and handle depression.
• India
5 Apr 10
lol depression is bad, so try to keep your mind cool, keep your self busy, pray and seel HIS blessings, this is what i do, believe me i am never depressed.. Thanks for this nice post, cheers Happy easter Prof